37 with Amber Rose

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You have a wonderful speaking voice. Thank you, Amber. You're welcome. Hey, I wanted to introduce that. I appreciate that.

Sorry. So, I'll name this podcast later. This is episode number 36 or 7. 37.

Time is flying around here. It is. It is. Episode number 37. I have my co-host

Motty the Body with me for some reason. Mhm. She's very excited today. Um, I wonder

why I have Is my [ __ ] going in and out? A great friend of mine, Michael Roar, is here as well. And so I want to say since

the inception of this show when Peter was still doing this show, Peter

Rosenberg is great friends with Amber Rose. So in part of Peter's pitch, I want to

say it was. Yo, Amber's kind of the part of the reason we're doing this podcast. She is because she was part of the

pitch. Yeah, the package deal. When I came to Peter and said, "Yo, I'm thinking about doing a podcast." He

said, "I'm friends with Amber Rose." Oh my god. I can get Amber Rose as a guest. I mean

I mean not randomly, just whenever she's in New York. And I said, "All right, Peter.

I'm I'm I'm into that." This was in January. Yep. And then Amber Rose proceeded to come to

New York back and forth a lot of times for about Well, let's ask her. How many times do you think you've been in New York since

January? Uh several different occasions. So 190 approximately. Yeah.

Has anyone I don't know that's bald and works at Hot 97 say, "Hey, come on. I'll

name this podcast later." You know what? He did. He did. He did mention it. Oh, yeah. She's going to saving him.

She's saving him. She's saving him. I know he did. He definitely mentioned it. I feel like

um it was more so like my team that constantly booked me from hour to hour

and I just I couldn't fit you guys in. But even to even today, um me and Marissa were talking and I was just

like, "Did you just say I couldn't fit you guys in?" I mean, well, only cuz it was a preset. She did the industry cop out where she

blamed her team. Yeah. She don't come on with this [ __ ] Is this your team that's in the room?

Let the record show. Yeah. I want to know who the team is. Is this the team that we're looking at these two gentlemen and this young lady?

I'm talking about the management that that did my whole schedule. Said, "Fuck them [ __ ]

man." So you said you speak of your team. I see a man wearing all black

and he's bigger than most men. My security Brian. I would assume that Brian is here to

keep you safe from harm. Yes. I see another gentleman sitting down who

he wouldn't even look at me when I shook his hand. I thought he was rather rude, but that's my guy. He's not rude. He's just glued to his phone like, "Hey,

what's up?" Don't worry, I'm an introvert, too. I don't like talking to people. And that's my assistant, Joseph. Oh, hey, Joseph. Joseph.

Wonderful. Wow. You guys have the same name. You guys have the same name. Wonderful name that you have there. And Duffy is here.

Mhm. My bae. Hi, Duffy. I'm a little confused by Duffy being

here. I'll be honest with you. Speak about it. Why Duffy?

I don't I wouldn't say that. Well, I know her as Duffy. I'm I'm just saying. But DJ Duffy so people know.

DJ Duffy from Dallas. Amazing DJ, right? Am I right about Dallas? All right. Because I [ __ ] with uh Duffy from Dallas, but you're in New York. Why?

Supporting Amber. My book just came out today. It's a very

It's a book today. Let's not segue just yet. Let's not segue to the book.

She's here to plug. She's here to plug. She's good. She's not. She couldn't fit us in before. She's not

here to talk. She's here to plug. She is good, boy. Oh, I I would have fit you guys in, but

but management, your team, we know. We know. We know. We know. We know. Hour. I tried. We're that sensitive. We don't We don't

care. But we've been ignored by people before. But uh so I just automatically

assume cuz it's instinctual of people to assume when two attractive people are hanging together for absolutely no reason that y'all are [ __ ]

Oh my god. But y'all wouldn't tell me that anyway. I would So I would be like, "Yo, I'm so [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] You

I don't think you know me, Joe. Hold on. Hold on. Trust me. I have number one [ __ ] on my on my shirt right now. I would totally

tell you if I was [ __ ] Yeah, but you have flipped the meaning of that. M segue. I embrace my

sexuality. So I I'm very open. Um and I am not [ __ ] Duffy. She's really just

a like a sister. She's like a really good friend to me. Well, Amber, I think we need to flip

this. How do you know Duffy? Cuz we have no backstory here. You're accusing them of [ __ ] How the [ __ ] do y'all know?

Oh, me and Duffy have never had sex. I didn't ask that. I just said, "How do you know?" Oh, you said you alluded to it. You said you're accusing them of having sex.

I didn't allude to anything. I just want to know how y'all know each other is good people from Dallas. I didn't. Oh, so why I got to be having sex with

first of all and just casually because she never came to New York to just randomly support me on release date.

You did not. I came to one of your concerts. Oh, see? Well, I don't know. I don't know if

anyone realized I asked Joe, how did y'all meet? And he said, Duffy's mad cool people. That didn't answer my

question. That did not answer the question. Wait, am I on trail here? Yeah. Yeah. We're interviewing Amber.

Duffy and I we've had a blissful deflecting beautiful uh acquaintance ship since we

Is that a word? No, it is now. Amber, hello. So, I feel like this is a very bright

[ __ ] jersey that you're wearing. Bedazzled almost confetti guy make it. Ducky.

Yeah, duck. Duck confetti made it for me. You flipped the meaning of this word [ __ ]

Mhm. Cuz [ __ ] means [ __ ] but you've changed it. What does slept mean to you?

Well, it's relative. It's open to interpretation. My definition is very different from some other people's

definition. My definition has a lot to do with decision-m, not just sexual acts.

That is definitely not what a [ __ ] is. Well, what is [ __ ] Tell us. A [ __ ] [ __ ] is a word that men and women

use to down women's sexuality or being or women being comfortable in their

sexuality. Um, I've said it on numerous occasions that I have been called a [ __ ]

even when I was still a virgin. Um, based off the fact that guys just liked

me. You know what I'm saying? That's Ebro.

Oh my god, he's such a creep. That chauvinistic piece of [ __ ] Oh, great. Oh, hey,

Ebro is here. It's funny. We were actually just speaking about you. That's why they told me to come. Can we Can we share Mike with Marty? Can

Can we have homie court real quick? I think we need to have homie court. We haven't had homie court in a while. Now, I want to let the listeners know

Ebro is highly intelligent, quick, witty, and articulates himself.

Don't try to soften me up. Don't try to soften me up. Especially under pressure. Male chauvinist. Am I?

But he's Yes. Now, Ebro, Amber is not the first person to have called you a male chauvinist.

Yeah. No, I'm judgmental for sure. Toward females. No, towards males, too. Homie Court is

in session. Listen, Amber and I I think we have a great relationship. There's [ __ ] I don't

agree with. That's it. That's homie court music. I thought that was my phone. That's my ringtone. You can't play like that.

Yeah, but you don't you you if a guy was to do it, you wouldn't say anything.

Absolutely. I would. If a guy was to do what? Whatever. Whatever the [ __ ] I feel some [ __ ] is corny. It's corny.

I feel like when it comes to women n you got the wrong guy for Wait, she has to finish her sentence.

Bro, she can't speak over you. You were saying I I feel like when it comes to women,

you may get a bit intimidated by our sexuality and confidence.

Oh, that's [ __ ] Intimidated by your sexuality and confidence. Yeah. Ebro, speak to that, please.

Um, is that true? If that's your impression, I can't. There's nothing I could do about that. I don't feel that. That's not what I feel.

Well, there is something you could do about that. You could come off differently. Well, you should want to know why people feel

that way about it. Well, and a lot of it is because if I take issue with something, right, I'mma be vocal about it, right? Whether if

it's a rapper and I don't like your song or I don't like what's in your song, Joe Button, I've been very vocal with [ __ ] I don't like about him or [ __ ] I think

that he's done as corny or whether it's a a I don't know. I'm trying to think of another male issue. I whether it's

police officers, whether it's politicians, I don't have a problem speaking my mind, right? If they're male, if they're female, whatever. The

only issue you and I have ever had is [ __ ] walk. We've never had an issue

before. No, not necessarily. But I do feel like outside of the studio, we can be bffs.

But inside the studio, and I and Joe made a valid point earlier

or um I'm sorry, what's your name? Rory. I'm sorry. Um he made a valid

point earlier that you do have a job to do. So that's not what it's about. But I do understand that

it's not it wasn't about a job. It was when the last time I saw you, we was hanging out and I was smoking weed with

your assistants. We was chilling, right? What was I talking to you about? Hey, I was talking to you about how as a woman, right, you need to change your

circumstances. This is my and and your surroundings. But that's the thing. As a woman, I don't need to do [ __ ] I'm a human

being. I was just trying to help you have better successful relationships. And you seem to be okay with the dialogue at the

time. So, you can do whatever you want. This is all I'm saying. I was just trying to help out. The reason why the reason why I'm doing

a [ __ ] walk is to not to not have things like that being said. That's the whole

point. It's not as a woman I need to be doing anything as a human being. Fine.

But it's never it's always like a double standard. And that's it. If you was a man, I would say as a man,

like I do to some men up here who are not having successful relationships, you may want to change the people you're

hanging around. You just happened to be a woman. So, as a woman, you were talking to me about not being able to

find men that you could take seriously. That's what the conversation was. I was like, "Well, maybe you want to get out

the club and get into environments where you can find men who also take themselves seriously."

Okay, that's fine. I understand what you're saying. But, but that's insinuating that I'm in the club.

Well, that's what I know you from. You don't know me from that. You're you're implying that

I only know you from the radio station and being out every night. I understand that, but that was never

said. That was never said. Like, I'm in the club every night looking for guys. That was never said. That's something

that you just insinuated that I possibly do cuz you're assuming what my life is like. Okay. Cuz you happen to be with rappers

a lot. That's what you happen to be around. And a lot in six years. In six years. I was

married. Okay. For four. Okay. I dated the first one for two years. All right.

What is a lot? That's my whole [ __ ] point. I'm 32 years old.

Joe Buttons around strippers a lot. That's not true. Yes, it is. That's not true. I'm with Amber on this

one. It is. I'm I'm with Amber on this one. People People don't know my life. They don't know what I do. They don't know who I'm

with Joe Button is with strippers. I don't know [ __ ] about either one of

y'all that deeply. I know. I know what everyone else knows. whatever's in social media and

whatever's on the blogs. I don't know what y'all do in your personal lives. I base it off the information I have. If

that's wrong, I'm comfortable being wrong. You're not going to get me to cosign and be cool with slutwalk. What

you're going to get from me is what you're going to get from me, right, as somebody cuz I like you and I think

you're a great person. What you're going to get from me is I don't like this, but I do understand where people are

judgmental and you would like for them to stop judging you like you're being promiscuous. I'm with it. I'm for it.

That's how I feel about me. What you're But you're promiscuous. I'm not

uh I mean, we have nothing. But but I'm But I'm not. But I think

Rory can attest to me not being promiscuous. He looks to me often enough. I'm not promiscuous at all. But I do. Maybe because Rory's there, you can't

really deal. He's blocking. No. Nine and a half times out of Joe is actually blocking.

Yeah. Nine and a half times out of 10, I'm the guy that's not trying to [ __ ] I'm actually turning [ __ ] away left and

right. But to get back on track, I think I bro, what Amber and Joe is saying here, you're giving advice on their personal life, but also admitting that you don't

know anything about it. Yeah. So, that's kind of a you can't advice someone's personal life

while also admitting that I don't know anything about your personal. I thought I knew and they're telling me I don't. So, that's fine with me. I can I can talk to you three anytime

cuz y'all in New York. I I'd rather talk to Amber for for a second here. Even though came and took over my [ __ ] No, they told me to come in here. Yeah.

I was They told me to come in. Am I done? Um, are we done with him? Yes. Was he has He's been found guilty

basically, right? I would say so. Yeah, he's guilty as [ __ ] All right. Gabriel's my guy, though. I'm Well, you are some of my [ __ ] have

said you're a chauvinist. Yeah, cuz there certain [ __ ] I ain't tolerating. I don't give a [ __ ] I feel like you're He's fair, too, though. Like,

no, no, but no. This It's a valid beef, though. To be one way on air and one way

off. It's It's visually you're beautiful. I've always said it. I'm like Ebro's fine as [ __ ]

right? Hold on. Listen. And I know and I see your piece of meat. No, but I see your heart. I see your

heart also because me and you have had conversations. I do feel like you're a really nice person. I also feel like

society has built you up to look at women in a certain way. That's not necessarily your fault. But

I'll say society has built me up to look at people who behave in certain ways. Whether it's a a person with a

Confederate flag that I'm going to assume you're a racist because you have a Confederate flag or someone who

dresses a certain way. I may pass judgment. I'm human. I'm going to pass judgment based on my experiences.

But maybe try not to. I try. Yeah. I'm usually right though.

Yeah. I try to practice not passing judgment. And I I I give that advice as well. Like I walked into an interview

yesterday and the guy looked super stuffy and he was in like a suit and he just like had it just looked like he was

going to really give me an attitude and be like a piece of [ __ ] and it was actually the best interview I did all

day and I the the prejudgment in my head was so [ __ ] up. But um so I understand

as a human like you you get that. But I try my best to not pass judgment on people, especially vocally or out loud

or try to hurt people's feelings without fully knowing the backstory of I hurt your feelings. Yeah, you did hurt my feelings.

Yeah. By saying what exactly? I I don't even want to talk about Once that breath comes, let me just say

this out there for the listeners. Once that breath comes, the what's following that is she don't

really want to talk. I experienced that very often in my personal life where I'm ready for a conversation in the breath.

It's because you're so promiscuous. I kind of knew that she wouldn't be also because you're showing. But now listen, you guys raised you guys raised

a very interesting point here and we are going to get to the [ __ ] walk. So in the book,

what is a [ __ ] You think there is no there's I told you what a [ __ ] I told No, you told me what a [ __ ] is not.

No, no, no. I said a [ __ ] is a word that people use to down women's sexuality.

So you don't believe that there's a [ __ ] period? I mean this is this is a situation right when you say promiscuous

which I never said. No no no I'm saying in general people in general right when you say someone is promiscuous right as a human as a human

being do what's promiscuous for a woman and what's promiscuous for a man for a

man it's double standards right? So like a promiscuous woman could be 10 guys in

her lifetime. A promiscuous man is a thousand 2,000 women, you know. Um men

also get praised for that. Um women get down for it. Um we're not allowed to be not saying

that we're not allowed to be, but we really get judged to for being sexual beings and um embracing our bodies and

doing whatever the [ __ ] we want, you know? It's just that's that's Go ahead. I'm not sure that you guys face a

judgment that men don't face. I mean, granted, I'm having a mature conversation. I'm not talking about kids

and boys and their beliefs. But one, there is a double standard because you guys bear children. You guys are made

differently. You guys are just looked at differently. That's why the terminology ladylike exists. It's not manlike.

Ladies are to act a certain way. Such words gentlemen. That's Oh, I agree. But it's not

gentlemanlike. Ladylike is what you hear. But I do think there is a difference between people who really

enjoy having sex and people that are [ __ ] I don't personally use the word [ __ ] Well, I mean, yeah, in the hip-hop

community, it's all it's the same. It's popular these days, but men can be that as well.

But but no, and you guys judge men for behaving that way. If you know that you have a conversation

with someone, you're just like, "Man, I've been with thousands of women." You're [ __ ] cool. If I'm like, "Yo,

I've been with thousands of guys. I'm a disgusting whore." And that's the

difference, you know? It's it's not I'm not here to promote permiscuity. I'm not here to be like, "Hey, go out and have

sex with a bunch of guys and [ __ ] you know, like really OD and have one

night stands." That is definitely not my message. That's not my life. I don't do that. Most of the time, realistically, I

sleep alone cuz I work a lot. You know what I'm saying? And I'm also a moment. I'm whatever. And I'm also, you know, an

advocate for HIV and AIDS awareness. So, you know, it's very important to be

careful. Why are you sleeping? You don't have a dog. No, I or I sleep I sleep with my son.

A cat? Who sleeps with a cat? I sleep with my son a lot. My cat used to sleep in my bed. Why is Amber Rose sleeping alone?

I sleep alone. Alone. What a loser. Alone. I I sleep with my son. Yeah, I'm such a loser. What a [ __ ]

But I just feel like I I'm just over, guys. I sleep with Duffy. You got to get a cuddle. Oh, what do you

know? We're back to Duffy over here. Y'all done did something. Yay.

Girls snuggle all the time. I need to find a guy to to cuddle with. Get like a good

Not interested. Nothing. So, you got nothing. Wait a minute. Platonic cuddling exists. Just kidding. No, it doesn't. Yes, it does.

No, it doesn't. So, you're not interested. I just can't find a guy that I'm interested in cuz I,

you know, I still love Whiz. So, it's like really hard to like, you know, I've tried to date

as, you know, and I'm just like, oh my god, they're not Whiz. Like, you're not Whiz. You're

not Whiz. You're not. Are you not going to get Whiz? Is there any hope there? I mean, you know, I just I mean, we're

going to be together forever for Sebastian. No, no, no. That's politically correct [ __ ] I'm looking for a real answer.

Of course you guys are caring about you. I mean we love obviously love each other but you know we went through a lot of

[ __ ] Um you know going through a public divorce and

you know just a lot of [ __ ] but um yeah we definitely love each other. What what [ __ ] y'all went through?

Y'all both got messy on Twitter for half a second and that was the end of Yeah. I mean that was enough though and the

song and all that other [ __ ] and like people jumping in and and friends and you're talking about the public. I'm

sure there was some messy [ __ ] behind Twitter. There's a reason those we know. So came to fition like 10 times

more. Well, I'm rooting for you guys. Well, my thing is perseverance. She clearly after all that they have

been through is sitting here saying, "I can't find a man and I'm not looking for a man because I am in love with my

child's father." Yeah. Which is admirable. So, if she's aware of this, why the [ __ ] is she not texting

this [ __ ] and staying there? I mean, like, but it doesn't just go, you don't just go back. It just doesn't

happen that fast, you know? Well, are you working on that? It's it's we're working on

being close friends again, and that's what's most important. And if that leads into something else and it does, if it

doesn't, then we know we have a good relationship for our son and our family. That's really the most important thing.

Um, but yeah, every time I do try to date a guy or have a snuggle buddy and

then it's just like I I don't I just don't want to take it to the next level. like I'm just a

heartbreaker and I feel like I broke a lot of hearts already throughout this year like just being single and I'm just

like I don't you know I don't want to lead guys on anymore cuz I'm they're not I'm not going to be with them. So So all right that's mature of you. So

that says that you have led men on in the past. Um yeah but like not on purpose. I kind

of came to that realization now. Yeah. I used to do that too. Yeah. Sucks man. Yeah. Yeah,

you just feel bad after and you're just like, man, I need to like not do that. So, this is probably the only uh

question I will ask in this realm. So, would you say James Harden is one of the people you let on?

Um, no. Cuz me and James were just more like friends. I mean, we were we were just more like

friend. Like, he's like he's like the party fun guy. like he's just

Well, I only say that because I saw an interview where you said, "Yeah, I might [ __ ] him." I did and I never speak and I never and

I that never actually happened and I knew it. So, I get so [ __ ] mad when people online like, "She [ __ ] James Harden, didn't she?"

Yeah, that never actually happened. That was But that was a that was me being mad. Um, and just being messy because I

was missing my husband. I was like, "Well, [ __ ] if I want to [ __ ] him, I'mma [ __ ] him." Um, and and it never happened.

What was your go-to lie when when you had to call out of work?

Um, God, it was that was a long time ago. Something tells me you just weren't miss

perfect attendants. Um, I mean, well, I was a stripper, so I like made my own schedule.

Well, strippers still got to call out of work sometimes. Not that I hear. I hear I don't know

that. I don't know that. I was kind of like really um good with

showing up and then like coming in on my days off and stuff like that. So anytime I really needed to like not come in, it

was always cool. Oh, so you just ran [ __ ] I was, you know, I've I've always been

very sweet to everyone, so they always looked out to for me. I don't think I've seen you very often without these shades on.

I was just thinking that. I don't really take them off. They're from Are they from your line?

Yeah. A lot of hurt in those eyes. She doesn't want us to look into the

windows to her soul. It's true. Okay. So, now your show that I keep reading about. I I'm forced to

ask about a bunch of [ __ ] that I don't really care about because I don't like you know what not to ask.

There's there don't be a chauvinistic piece of [ __ ] like

No, I'm not chauvinistic. Misogynistic maybe. That was like really bad. Like did not

even get it. I know. But I don't know. I still wanted to get back weird though because he doesn't get it. Like I feel like he

he just wants to argue. I don't know. I don't know. Whatever. Well, well, he he admitted to to his faults, and I have

a big problem when people do that, like what I just admitted to. Yes, I have a very small sample size of information,

but I'm going to be ignorant and bas uh come to a conclusion based off this little bit of information.

He's just like, yo, you're looking for guys in the club and you're always around rappers. I'm like,

no, I'm never in the club. If I'm only if I'm in the club, I'm working. I'm hosting. If not, I'm with my kid. and

two two married one and was with the other one for two years and MGK was just like

a moment that's it what's a moment how come girls get to have moments and [ __ ]

it is a a moment when I have a moment what's a moment a moment is you know some judging

where it goes and it didn't work out and just it just so happens that it's in public view and so everybody and we never really put that out like

the paparazzi just caught us like walking Amber. And then you quietly started and it was

cool and it didn't it wasn't a big Are y'all caping right now? What is happening? Camera rose. How old are you?

32. I just turned 32. You're not sitting here telling me in my face we didn't put that out. The public

just caught us. I saw y'all on red carpets. That's where paparazzi is. I did see them on red carpets on my TV. It

was her and MGK and Black China. They were hugged up. They were smiling. That's not paparazzi. like way after all

that [ __ ] came out. That was way way after that and we did not put the we did not we were not on the red carpet

together at all. Okay, let me ask you. Well, if you're walking down Broadway in Soho and you obviously know that

paparazzi are following you and you guys are holding hands. It wasn't it wasn't paparazzi. It was people taking pictures and putting it on

Instagram. People picking it up. Well, you know, I mean, you know, that's going to happen. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that at all, but I

think you would know what they're saying. You were c after your husband and walk nowhere without people taking a

picture of Amber Rose and whoever they think she's [ __ ] But at the same time, we didn't like that at that time. We did not know that

at that time. We were not in an area of paparazzi area or like it was it was a

very like quiet area. Like they were going to crustation in [ __ ] LA.

We really stayed away from that [ __ ] But anyway, he was just a moment. That's it. It was very brief. But it was a nice moment. I'm sure it

was everybody. He's a nice guy. I just seen him the other day in Vegas. Like everything's all good. Like we're still like cool.

How many moments does somebody get to have before I can call him a hoe? No. No. I can never call him a hoe.

They can just have a million moments. But that's the whole point of her message is because she she wanted to

date. Like it it wasn't like she's been [ __ ] 40,000 guys and found another. So but why can't why is women like it's

like oh I I I went through a separation. It's like I'm not allowed to date. I'm not allowed to like

No, you're not. I'm out of here. You're not allowed to date. You're not allowed to [ __ ] You're

not You just got to stay home. Even harder to do in a public eye. You just got to stay home and just be like [ __ ]

a nun. You got to be a nun. Yeah. Uh, finally you guys get it. Wonderful.

We've only been talking for 20 minutes and I got them to see my point. Yes, you have to be a nun. They have breakup

rules. No, there's not. You got to go through your Yeah, right. My husband was out with nasty. I'm not saying your husband's a

real [ __ ] that he should be out with mad [ __ ] We're talking about you and

what you should be doing that Whiz and Whiz is a great guy. He is a great guy.

We all agree. So, now that we got the nun [ __ ] out of the way. You um you wanted to say something about you wanted to go.

Oh, no. I wanted to backtrack to the uh [ __ ] thing and you were suggesting that men judge women for their behavior.

Yeah. Do you think men get judged for their behavior? Period. I'm not talking about sexually.

um behavior. As far as what though, like specifically where where women may get judged for

their sexual activity is a man supposed to act a certain way to be a real man. Is he judged?

And is that right or wrong? I mean, I don't know. I feel like it needs to be more specific than that. Like as far as like taking care of the

household or if a man is dating a woman that makes more money than him, he expresses his feelings.

Whoa. Who does that? [ __ ] out of here. I'm just sorry. My bad. Am I being

Get out of here, Ero. You're being a chauvinist. Um, and he is judged as not a real man.

Is that right or wrong? Because she makes more money than him. Yeah, these are all hypothetical things. I'm not putting my opinion here.

No, I don't think that's um I think that you should follow your heart. I don't think it should ever be about money. I

mean, that's always like the misconception with me. Like they Well, I'm not saying more financially. I'm saying how a man is supposed to be

portrayed in society as the deals with his women. If he's a

real man, if he's a protector, Yeah. And he shouldn't have feelings

expressing them. He's now a [ __ ] That's why I don't cry. I don't I don't agree with that. Okay. I just wasn't I just want to see

if you were consistent within the outrage of judging people. That's all I want to Yeah.

And double standards and stuff. But I think that's up for interpretation, too. Well, do you think double standards should exist?

No. No. I've noticed with with this breed, not you, but this new generation of

feminists, it seems that women pick and choose the traditions they want to follow within that.

Get her, Rory. Get her. She on the roof. I mean, you can't you can't stunt me. No, I'm not trying to stunt me with my

security standing right here. work. Yo, honestly, if somebody knocked me out in a mother hat, I'd have to take that

L. He would have to take that hat off. Really have to take that L.

He's really [ __ ] strong. I believe I don't want no beef. This is just an objective conversation with this

lovely young woman sitting across from me. Okay, so go ahead. Um I've noticed with this, again to repeat myself, this um

generation of feminists picks and choose the traditions they want to follow very much where they don't want to be judged

for their sexual activity the way men are not. They also want to keep with the man has

to pay for the date, the man has to take me out, the man has to provide for my household.

And it seems like a lot of inconsistency with their outrage. She got he got you now.

I don't I think they're picking and choosing. It's not a personal feminism is not a buffet. You can't just pick and choose the things that you

want. It's like a quotable line for equality is the actual definition of it.

Absolutely. I agree with you 100%. I I I I feel like

um that's also a double standard that a lot of women um do feel like the man

needs to pay for everything. I feel like if you if you're in love with someone and um you're not financially capable of

pitching in and they take that up for you, then that's cool. But that's a conversation to be had. Um but I don't

necessarily feel as though um it should be more of the man or the woman. I think

it should be equal. It just seems that that that women are now petty fogging. But there's a lot to fit their narative

that feel is Amber a feminist that they Yeah, she's a I could be prejudging here, but I would

imagine cuz I've researched the [ __ ] walk and it seems that it's carried on by a lot of feminists.

Mhm. There was some hoes there. They're not There was some hoes at the [ __ ] walk.

So, I'm just saying I'm just saying they was there. Do you mean hoes? Like it's some hoes like to

[ __ ] or like they're literal hoes? Well, hoe is a term of endearment. I'm saying are you saying it like

I'm not saying it was a girl. So he's saying it was I my body is my temple. So I don't behave I don't I don't behave

that way. But from what I hear from what you hear? Yeah. If you were looking you know what I mean?

No. Some [ __ ] that don't care about being that's not necessarily their message at

all. I wish there was video. You guys can see my [ __ ] side eye right now.

Well, if you take them [ __ ] shades off the look on my face. I can't see. I want to engage.

Listen. So, what happened? Tell tell me about um tell me about the show. What? What? It was a rumored reality show.

It was a rumor that I never said that Black Shiner never said. We never said it. They pulled it out of their [ __ ]

asses and it just was never happening. We never filmed anything. We never But didn't you have to Didn't you say

something in an interview like you'll have to wait and see or something like that like you alluded to? Yeah, but that's I'm an actress. I you know, so like I've

I've been acting. I've done Blackish. Blackish is coming out. They just uh wrote me into four more episodes.

It's a great show. Oh, congrats. Yeah, thank you. So, like, you know, I have things in the works. So, when they

say, "Oh, we see, you know, you might be having a show." And I'm like, "Just wait and see." They're like, "Oh, a reality

show." And then I'm like, well, I don't want to I don't want to say, "No, it's not a reality show." Cuz then you're going to know it's something else

and it is something else that I'm doing that's not Blackish, but they're like, "The show got cancelled." And I'm like,

"There was never a reality show anyway." Um, so it was just like they I don't

[ __ ] know, man. I hate the internet. So annoying. Such a gift and a curse.

What's your go-to cleaning utensil?

Um, the Clorox wipes. Oh my god, those are heaven. Clorox wipes are really good.

Yeah, I use them [ __ ] forever. I have to hide them from my cleaning. So when you get You got a cleaning lady.

Oh yeah, I hate cleaning. Oh, what are you getting? How much are you getting paid? We got to talk to you. What a [ __ ] leader. Um, so you wake up

to clean your house on a Sunday morning. What are you listening to? I I Well, whiz. No, like Anita. Probably like Anita

Baker. What's your favorite Anita song though? Um,

Anita probably uh this girl all wrong.

Probably like uh 365 Days. Okay, that's probably one of my favorites.

Get out of town. What the [ __ ] do you know about Anita Baker? I mean, I grew up in Philly and I grew

up with like a Kverian mom that this is the [ __ ] I grew up on. Four tops, you

know. Philly is very soulful. So, um I actually just had like a soulful R&B uh

birthday party at my house and everybody were invited. Thank you. No, well I live in LA now. We we have

each other's number now. Mi gets fly out offers all the time. We could have rode with her.

Yeah, we we we could have went. But yeah, I DJed it my myself um via my phone, but Duffy was there and I just

did like a whole um You didn't DJ DJ Duffy? I know. What is that about? So DJ Duffy is around Amber not DJing and they're

not [ __ ] in the corner. They just keep tweeting each other heart

uh heart eye emojis. But it wasn't I don't know how to DJ like Duffy did. I like I just did it from my phone. Like it's just a

a large collection of R&B and I was very impressed. Thanks boo. Oh, she thinks she go toe to toe.

No, she could. I was about to say with the R&B god, you know. I don't know. That's what they told me

at the party because I was like yo, I'm about to start DJing some straight R&B. They're like, "Yo, no shit." Like all my

friends and [ __ ] like Brandon and them, they're just like, "Whatever." And I was just hitting them with hit after hit and

like throwback and boom, boom, boom. They was like, "Oh shit." Yeah, you got it. And we was like just singing at the

top of our lines. It was so much fun. We had I had a bunch of Roscos ordered and we was just eating Roscos and we singing

R&B. It was dope. That sounds like a really good time. It was so much fun. Was there any hosting? Word. That's what I want to know.

I mean, [ __ ] I was ready. I was ready to go. Hey, see my thing with Amber, right? And this is why

it just seems like it would be really fun to be cool with you. It seems like Amber would know the hoes.

Of course. Oh my god. I would think if you just hit Amber to link up, she would have at least a squad

of like bad [ __ ] Uh bad. Your definition of bad [ __ ] is

different from ours. No, let's be clear. Amber is a bad [ __ ] Well, that is apparent. No one's going

to argue. I know. But then she hangs out with China, LRA, Leia, and a whole bunch of pretty [ __ ] Duffy.

China. Black China's not attractive to me in my taste. I get why people like her, but just

I mean, everybody has their own personal preference. I think China's absolutely gorgeous. No, I think a lot I think a lot of

people I see why people think she is. Just not my type. No, I mean, I feel she's beautiful, but not my type is a better word.

I feel you for that. How many of these uh jerseys do you have like this that say [ __ ] that are mad?

and my assistants have I think he has one that says like [ __ ] or something on it. Joseph.

[Laughter] No, it doesn't say It doesn't say [ __ ] Amber, my other my other

It just says Joseph. I think my other assistant has one that says [ __ ] on it.

Your other assistant? I have two assistants. Why do you have two assistants? Why does somebody need that much assistance?

Very very very busy. I have a big schedule. Who's your barber? Um, I have a barber.

Who? His name is Nick. Hi, Nick. Shout out to Nick. Tell tell me about this book that that's

coming. Well, it came. Yeah, it's it's out today. Today? Yes, today. Tell me about it. It's called How

to be a bad [ __ ] And um it's a it's it's a how-to book.

And uh I touched lightly on my childhood and how I grew up. And um I called it

how to be a bad [ __ ] because I just feel like in society today, a well-rounded woman, people would call a

bad [ __ ] So I decided to put like all my mistakes in there, every mistake that I made, um so women don't have to. It's

a cute book. I read it over the weekend. How did I know you read it? I was really something told.

I actually have autographed copies for you guys. Oh, wow. Thank you. For all of us, I am taking a back.

Y that is a wonderful gesture. You're welcome. Can I Can I get a [ __ ] jersey, too?

Um I Yeah, I can like uh get him to make you one that says [ __ ] Number one [ __ ]

I was going to get one that said [ __ ] but you should get like a like number one ginger or something. Yeah, but you can't teach all these hoes how to be bad

[ __ ] That's true. You can't give a lot of [ __ ] that just ain't it just ain't got no

But a bad [ __ ] is up for interpretation and teach these young women how to be

confident in themselves, how to get their finances in order, how to do different things to make their life. What What's a bad [ __ ] by definition?

Well, no, cuz everybody's going to be politically correct. Just a wellrounded That's the thing. It's Yeah, just a well-rounded woman. Uh

I talk about finances, friendship, sex, relationship. Are you telling people to have two assistants to be a bad [ __ ]

I mean, if you get to that level, then you need bad [ __ ] is a mental thing. It's She teaches them how to get money, how

to get get their [ __ ] together to put themselves in a position to be able to have two assistants in the future.

For sure. Well, why do you think bad [ __ ] is accepted and [ __ ] is not? She's just going to keep I don't think I don't think anything is

necessarily accepted. I feel like when you take the power out of it and you just embrace it, no one can hurt you

anymore. I think bad [ __ ] is more accepted now. I I think more accepted now for sure.

Well, maybe [ __ ] will one day be in I don't want to talk about all of this [ __ ] whole bad [ __ ]

because you're a chauvinistic piece of [ __ ] Well, well, I just don't want to talk about it. Feel like we've every time uh we have spoken about Amber, not

us just per se us, but yeah, for the last however many months it's been about Yeah. I don't want to who who

cares? Tell me what the post post uh office worker has to do to get some [ __ ] from Amber Rose.

Good question. What the [ __ ] Like I'm I'm here for the regular [ __ ] Yeah, that that's what I'm here for.

I like the regular [ __ ] I feel Amber. Amber. Amber. Amber. Amber. Amber. Amber. Don't Don't PC me.

I'm I'm not. So why don't you bring the [ __ ] UPS work on the red carpet and kiss and hug on him.

I mean, my whole thing is like you guys see I don't put anything out. You guys see what they [ __ ] catch or like a

rumor. They catch a lie. It's a rumor. The only thing that they caught was me and MGK. They didn't catch

anything else. Give me a minute to think. They didn't. It was all It's always

public perception or what they think it is. Your role on the show is to catch this stuff. So, but you know, first of all,

but you know, I don't Second of all, it's true though. The James Harden. Oh my god. All right. Never mind. Never

mind. Never mind. The James Harden thing. She said in an interview, "Yeah, I want to [ __ ] him." But she never said she that she did. And it was and it was gone after that. She

went to a single [ __ ] game, was spotted at one game. You don't think that she [ __ ] James little [ __ ] like

that and then everything else is just all up for interpretation. All right, back to the actual point. The postal worker. Yeah, I want to know what he has to do

to get something. I mean, you know, I just really like chivalry. I like a really um you know,

everyone has a love language. You know that. So, like everyone has a what? A love language. A love language.

That's kind of like for you know about love language. I'll I'll pull up the test. Oh my god. I'm going to send you the book. It's

a book love language. I have a love sign. Everybody has one. Everyone has a love language, right? Even with my hoes.

Oh my god. It's what it's it's what someone can do or what you do to show somebody that you

love them. They might do that. Oh, I got mad love languages. Someone's might be a verbal thing like

you have to hear like praise and things like that to know that your partner is with you is is there for you. Someone

else might be gift giving. You have to receive things to know that they are present in the relationship. People have different love and a couple can have two

different ones and think that their partner doesn't really love them or isn't trying when their partner thinks they are because their love language is

different. Right. So like my so like Thank you. You're welcome. That was well said. Like my my problem

they keep throwing in great jokes with all their serious go my problem I'm still trying to figure out the the

post that like my love language I would give to my significant other all the

time. Right. So I like um I like gifts. I like time and I like um uh like sweet

words. So like I would give that to my significant other. But their love language would be, you know, me cleaning

up or like um I don't know, like rubbing them or

something like that or touching them all the time. That's their love language. So I'm giving them all these nice things, but it's not what they necessarily want.

So that's when you got to like figure out what they want and then give them that. Has a man ever um I won't get into

all my many different love languages. I'm going to keep them to myself. Has a man ever um turned down the opportunity

to date you because of all that comes with you to date? Uh,

you know, everybody wants to date Amber until they realize what Amber's ro uh

what what my life is like, you know, and then they get a taste of that and they're just like, whoa, I do not want

this. A taste of what? Um, just a lot a lot comes with me, you know, a lot of fake rumors like we just

talked about. um which is extremely unfortunate cuz that [ __ ] that I got to live with and you know it's [ __ ] up

and then um you know and it's like

for example let's say me and you after this right

I'm like yo Joe I'm hungry like you want to go down the street and get something to eat you're like yo I'm starving we get something to eat we leave all over

the internet it's like we're together my stomach is big cuz I just had a big lunch and now I'm pregnant by you and

blah blah blah blah blah. Your family's calling you like, "Yo, you got Amber pregnant. What restaurant can you have sex in that

I don't you know it's been [ __ ] assuming

assuming that like we've been talking for so long and you know now we just went on a date

and it's just like we literally just went to eat and I [ __ ] went back to Philly and like Wait, Amber, hold on. Let Marissa cake

for you. No, I was going to say Rihanna just did. That's what she did with James Harden. Yeah, you guys. What the [ __ ]

In a similar interview, she was talking about her relationship with Matt, whatever his name was, that played baseball. And she said the same thing. They were in the getting to know each

other phase and so they went on like a quick vacation because they're superstars and they could do [ __ ] like that. Um, and she felt bad because like

she knew once they got and they got photographs and she didn't plan on that, which is why they went on the vacation to get to know each other. She knew once

that happened that he was going to be subjected to rumors that now they're a couple. Now he can't go out and do

anything by himself without getting blasted by the Navy, that he's cheating on her. He's a dog. He's scum. So he's

subjected to all these things that she didn't necessarily want for him and he didn't realize was going to come with that world and it just comes with it and

it's not her doing. Well, he's stupid to think if he doesn't know those things are going to happen. I mean, you know, it's just like when

but when can you be normal though? Like when can I just go out to eat with Joe or with whoever the [ __ ] And it's just

like a normal like we're just eating. You kind of unfortunately I mean I feel you right. You can't but

like when do people really realize like it's not always that deep? Like maybe it was just actually food.

Well, like I said when I first came in and No, it's just annoying. It's annoying because then I sit here

with Ebro and he says I'm with nothing but rappers constantly and I'm always in the club constantly and I'm always doing

this constantly and it's just like that's not my life. Well, Amber, you do know that what people think of you is none of your

business, right? I that's in my book actually. Oh [ __ ] That she had that she has here that is

out today that we have. We get an autograph source now. How to be a bad I say that in my book. How to be a bad [ __ ] We get an autographed copy of

I I do actually want to make one quick point. Back to the postal worker. I think I know how Amber would date a regular

dude. Maybe if they used the product Bevel. Oh,

the one and only self-shaving system. Are you [ __ ] kidding me? Uh all right. Uh back to Bevel. the

first and only shaving system with for men with coarse curly hair or sensitive skin. Bevel got to up the [ __ ] uh

check. I don't even think we got a bevel check yet. Why am I doing two [ __ ] uh clinically proven to reduce and prevent

razor bumps, discoloration, and irritation is the reason nine out of 10 bevel customers come back month after

month. Uh go to getbvel.com. get gbeel.com.

Uh yeah, our ads are working though. My makeup girl yesterday told me that um her man was talking about how he was getting

razor bumps. is like you should use and and Amber will talk to you. Right. Right. Amber cosign.

Yes. They ain't cut a check. They ain't cut a check. Amber not saying [ __ ] till she get a check. I'm not getting no checks to be to talk

about. No. When is the last time that you cried and did you have your shades on? On my birthday.

You cried on your happy tears. I woke up. Duff was there. I woke up

seven. She was She was in the bed with me. It was It was my birthday. Um not DJ. Wait. Huh?

Earlier you just said girls. Amber. Amber, Amber, I cannot allow you to contradict yourself this way in this

show. Just earlier in this show, you slept alone all the time. Now you got somebody in your bed. She lives in Dallas. I live in LA. So

when she's in my and when she's coming to visit me, she sleeps in the bed with me. She's my friend.

It's not weird. It's not pull out couch. I mean, yeah, I have guests, but we wind

up watching Netflix and like Netflix and chill. But like that's exactly

Okay. No, I understand. But here, let me ask you a question. Are you into I cried that morning. But are you in a girl? Have you ever been with a girl?

Yes, I have. Duffy, have you ever been with a girl? What a coincidence. What a I mean, who

knew? It's crazy, right? If he's a girl and you're a straight

man, are y'all [ __ ] Hell no. That's a false equivalent.

No, it's not. What are you talking about? You guys are the same. We don't sleep in a bed together. We did one time.

No, we did not. No, we did not. I argued that [ __ ] There was right when you moved in and there was no beds in the house.

It was head to feet. No, we were next to each other, but we didn't touch each other. Cuddle. No. Ew.

God. Jesus. We don't like we don't spoon each other. We just lay in I mean I have a California king bed is enough room for

the both of us. And we watch TV and I woke up that morning to answer your question and I cried cuz it was my

birthday and my son wasn't home and I just had a I was sad. Yo, there's nothing worse than waking up

to a woman crying. Yeah, that's like horrible. What did I miss? So, wait. So, now so I'm Here we go. Now

we the question to come in here. So, Duffy is while she's in New York. Um, you guys have separate hotel rooms, of

course. No. Two beds. No, you guys got a double. No.

Maybe they wanted to save money. I didn't even think to ask for a double. What hose? Like, y'all don't have a double.

No, she sleeps in a bed with me. I mean, I'm sure it's a big bed, right? It's mighty mighty mighty mighty mighty.

Well, I mean, I'm just saying you look very well put together this morning.

Duffy looks like she had a a wild Yeah. Somebody I mean,

somebody might have had a rough night. To get ready, huh? No makeup. The hair is a little

flowy. Collars up on the jacket. Pajamas.

I listen. I wear pajamas everywhere. You are just you really want this to be a moment and it's not.

No, I want I want you and I to be able to have transparency. We're telling you the truth.

And in 30 in my in my 35 years on earth, I am able to tell when [ __ ] is

occurring. So if you got of course you believe. Well, listen. In the event that you two and I don't and I don't care. It's none

of my business and we're going to get off this, but um cuddling is happening.

No. No, we do not sleep on each. Oh, so no spooning. No, it's not like that. We literally

sleep in the same bed. It's not weird. Last time I got in bed, don't talk to me. I'm going to sleep. I did say that. I did say that.

I said that like 25 times last night cuz she'll talk my ear off the whole time when I'm falling asleep in the bed and

I'm like, "Duve, shut your [ __ ] mouth." Sounds like y'all a couple.

That's what it sounds. That's what it sounds. She'll be like, "Yeah." So anyway, so like um like two weeks ago and then like

I'm like sleeping. So, both of you are both of you are single. You're single. No, she's engaged.

I got that rock be. All right. Well, hypothetically, say she wanted to get

y'all in the same hotel room. Where are you going to go? She's engaged, babe. Hypothetically, I have assistance. I could stay in my

security's room, my assistance room. I'll buy another room. It doesn't matter. Wait, you're engaged to a guy?

Oh my god. I thought that was a valid question. Yes. I'm not trying to be a dick. A male. Yes. How does he feel about you

sleeping in bed with Amber Rose every night? Perfectly fine with it. Uh, you don't say. Perfectly fine with

it. All right. Well, those double standards. He knows it ain't nothing. How many men How many men do you

Well, what you said earlier, you don't mislead people that way anymore. I I was going to ask you, how many men do you

have sexual relations with that maybe Yeah. sexual relations with

that maybe are hoping uh something will flourish and prosper between the two of

you where it really will not or you don't have as of now none as of right now none

because I don't do that I don't do that anymore before Bob would probably rotate

like four or five Jesus Mary and Joseph that is not a lot

I didn't say it was a lot you keep chiming in to save Amber I don't know what the [ __ ] [ __ ] my boo.

So four or five? I don't think four or five is a lot. Yeah, it was about about four or five. Mhm.

Um but yeah. Yeah, that's [ __ ] up. So has a friend of yours or somebody

that you just have never viewed that way ever tried to break the barrier and you

just had to maybe No, because I'm very um I'm very

uh open and honest. Like I I I never I guess I give off that energy like please

don't ever do that and ruin the relationship. Like people think like me and Quincy have been having sex for

years. Quincy Jones. Quincy Brown. God. Oh, I thought Quincy Jones too.

Wait, you can't say Wait, who's Quincy Brown? Quincy Brown. Stepson. Yeah.

Yeah, but you can't just say Quincy. Quincy Jones is Quincy. Quincy on Instagram and Quincy. He has

at Quincy. We don't follow him. I think it depends on the age range. Like people my age, I automatically

Yeah. Yeah. I automatically Wait, who's Al Shore's son? That's Quincy. Yeah. Quincy Jones.

Quincy Brown. Quincy Brown is Alb Shore's son. Correct. I love Alb Shore. Yeah. Me, too. His child.

How old is he? And Puffy is his. Okay. So, this is this is the crazy [ __ ] So, like Quincy's my

best friend, right? And then Albore is his dad. And his dad is dating Nick

Cannon's mom. Um, and Nick Hen is my manager. Um, so it's just like one big circle. We all really know each other.

That's why I don't [ __ ] with LA. It's It's too much intertwining. This person knows this person. I can

never move to LA and I hate the traffic in LA, but it's great to visit. I got I used to have a lot of holes in LA.

Are you working on something with Eric Andre? Uh, no. I did a show though. Oh, see I figured it was something.

Yeah, I did a show. It was fun. Whose show? We became friends. He's a comedian. He has a show on Comedy Central. Eric Andre.

The Eric Andre show. And um they were woman crush Wednesdaying and man crush Mondaying on Instagram. So I was curious what that

could be. Oh, that's just my friend. That's dope. Yeah. What deodorant do you use? Dove?

Oh, I do too. The Dove the dry one. I'm obsessed with it. The dry dove. And that's tricky. Yeah. Women have way better deodorant

than we do. No. Y'all can use women deodorant. Yeah, you can use the Dove dry spray.

Sometimes I use men body wash. I like that [ __ ] I have used women's deodorant before. I just hate guys that smell fruity. That's

such a turnoff to me. Guys that smell fruity like you know that smell like apples or like peach. Like they'll use like peach

lotion. What about love spell? I myself. So So I shouldn't have wore my love

spell. The official stripper spray. I thought I was doing it. I thought I smelled amazing. My passion x body spray. Just like get

like like green Irish tweed like Creed or something or like uh Dior

Amber. No. No wonder she's not [ __ ] with the UPS guy. Do you know how much Creed costs? I I do.

The UPS guy don't have a bunch of I'm accustomed to a certain lifestyle, you know? I mean, I make a lot of money. I

You know, and I I would buy that for the up the UPS guy. Not so humble brag.

I'm just saying. It's crazy. I [ __ ] work hard as It's crazy cuz I work at the post office.

No, that was a so not so humble brag. I won't I won't [ __ ] settle. I make a

lot of money. man. I would take care of him. I would have the postman have creed. What compromises are you willing to make

in a relationship? I don't know. I mean, what do you mean? So, can a [ __ ] can be broke and [ __ ]

with you and you'll buy me Creed every week? I mean, he has to have ambition. I can't just be with someone that's on the

couch, you know, just watching daytime. Nobody's on the couch at your house.

I'm just saying, you know, a a guy has to be striving for something bigger and better in his life. So, what if what if

a guy I'm extremely attracted to very smart men. If you're extremely smart, you

speak well, um you're educated, you like documentaries, like that's like my thing. I love that. I'm a really

attractive guy. A UPS guy could be all of those things. Yeah, he can. And he could be ambitious, but yes, that's what I'm saying.

But I just want to know how long would you purchase him? How long would you be buying him Creed? Like, what if he hasn't met his goals in like a year and

a year and a half? Are you supporting me? I got to get a [ __ ] that make more money than me. Word.

How much I love him. You know what I'm saying? Oh yeah. She's not with the [ __ ] She's not with the [ __ ] What are your three deal breakers?

M my three deal breakers. Um God, I don't

know. I don't know. You have to know. I don't know. I really

You just gave Pardon me. You just gave us one turn off extremely fast. Men that smell like apples.

Oh yeah. But that's like I mean that's not a deal breaker. I can like change the way he

smells. Oh, so you're one of those women that try to change men. No, that's not true. But when I try to change

I'm just saying this is another option. It's not necessarily changing anybody.

Um I don't know. I don't know a dealbreaker. I can't I got to come back to that. I don't know what what what were what what are the

last three shows that you watched on uh Netflix? Do you watch How to Get Away with Murder? Um, I've recently just

started watching that. Um, I just watched uh Henry VIII documentary and

then I started watching Tutors after that cuz I was like really interested um in the middle evil times.

And yeah, those three, I guess. So, those were our go-to shows at the

moment. Yeah. So, no Homeland, no Quantico, no Scandal. I like Scandal. I like Scandal a lot.

Mhm. I think the TV really get I don't really get to watch Netflix or like TV that

often. Are you even able to to do you even have the time uh that's required to maintain

a successful romantic relationship? No, I'll be honestly. I'll be honest. No.

Well, my son is two and a half and I work like a [ __ ] and I have a two a two and a half year old son. So,

um I'm extremely busy. So, even at the end of the night when I put my baby to sleep and I put and I put on, you know,

Netflix to go watch something, I usually fall asleep within like the first half hour. It's tired.

I can't even imagine you would have that much time to to [ __ ] I don't. That's the crazy part. No

action, bro. No. No, really. It does. So, [ __ ] takes up a lot of It's time It's time consuming.

That That hoes have been a distraction. Oh my god. Which is why All right. All right. I'll stop saying the word hoes. Well, I don't

say [ __ ] Just say girls. Women. But I'm not talking about girls.

All right, fine. All right, fine. Fine. Fine. The women who lack substance. Yes. There we go. Yes.

Why do they lack substance? Y'all going to get me to preaching up in here. No, just say women. Go ahead. Finish.

No, he just means the ones that he wouldn't never be with that are like But wait, but wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait a minute.

I can say guys. I'll say guys. I'm not going to say like [ __ ] [ __ ] of the world. Like I'm just going to say

guys. Well, you can because there are [ __ ] [ __ ] Well, maybe I'm more descriptive than you are. Oh my god.

All right, Joe. Go ahead. You made me lose where I was going. I don't remember. You were [ __ ] with hoes is what you

last said. No, no. I was trying to say that I don't [ __ ] with hoes. You were saying that sex takes too long.

I was saying that hoes are a distraction. Yeah. So, I try I that was the point I was

trying to make before you rudely interrupted me. That hoes are distra distraction. So, I kind of try to avoid

them. So, there's not really much time to I mean, that's how I feel about guys right now. Yeah, there's not much time. While everyone thinks that I got like these

lines for threesomes and orgies just around the corner, there's really not much time for that.

Agreed. I was trying to agree with you. I'm in the same boat. Yeah, I I would assume so.

I am. So, what Well, tell me what's next for you. Tell me what what are some of the things on your vision board? Do you have

a vision board? Movies. movies, acting. I really enjoy acting. Um, I sit with my acting coach a lot. I

really take it seriously. I recently got an acting coach as well. I enjoy it. It's fun, right? It's really Yeah,

it's fun. It's It's um I when I went on my first audition, I was so scared. Um,

and I was just like, "Fuck, I don't know if I could do this." But I was like, "You know what? The worst thing they could say is no." And they did. They

were just like, "You're not a good actress." Um, and then I just kept studying and trying and trying and

trying. And then when I went to go do Blackish and um I just [ __ ] murdered

that [ __ ] I killed it. I killed it. And then that's why um they're writing me

into more episodes. Oh, that's great news. How how often do you sit with your acting coach? Um it depends. If I know that I have

something coming up, I'm like it's like every day. Like I really try to like sit with him and like um really execute the

character. But um I I don't have a set I don't have a set schedule because I I I

work a lot. Is your acting coach expensive? Um

she's got money. Actually has never charged me. What? Actually has never charged me.

Good [ __ ] You are you How much do you But you know why? Because Okay. So what

happens is he he was a writer for Fresh Prince, right? And then he uh did like a

shitload of sitcoms and movies and stuff like that. And he's like a really like main writer for stuff like that. Um big

budget films. And um he did the movie Sister Code with me as a favor to anyway

that's a long story. But anyway, I ran into him. I met him. We literally like fell in love like a like a extremely

like but like a friendship. No, like a friendly fell in love. No. Yeah. But like literally like he

became like Rosenberg. He's like another Rosenberg to me. Um so um and he he's married and

everything like that. But um everybody's married and engaged. Yeah. Except for except for us.

Yeah. Except for me. No, I got a few more months left. I said uh I said 2015 I was getting married or

engaged. That's not going to work out for you. I did say months. And with my friends giving me all this

negative energy, I'm into speaking things into existence. You're going to meet somebody and get engaged in two months. You You don't even know if it's

right there. Well, I'm just saying that in the year. Yeah. To meet the person that you will in eventually fall in love

with and spend the rest of your life with. I'm still interested. And you could you be monogamous with someone? My middle name is monogous.

It's not. When have I ever cheated? [Music]

I don't know exactly. My middle name Well, cheating is relative, but Yeah. All right. Well, I'm a relationship

based person. We Well, I'll say that. too. I I pre I'm sorry. I prefer to be in a relationship. I like to I like to

be in a relationship. Yeah. I prefer a relationship. And often with me, what has happened in the past has been where you'll go a long period

of time without a relationship and then you end up uh you end up investing in

somebody that you really shouldn't be investing in because you're succumbing to maybe being lonely or being or so you

end up with somebody and then when that explodes you kind of are back in your normal frame of mind like okay why did I just

do that? You're a serial monogous way. Yeah. You Yeah. But you know it's funny people say that I'm a serial dater. I'm a serial

monogous, but then I'm a hoe. Well, I'm from someone that knows you by saying you're a serial monogous. I don't

think you're a hoe. Well, I've been I've gone a long time now and I don't want to make this interview about me, but this is probably I was telling uh Were you with us last

night? No, you were prepping for our Amber Rose interview. You were prepping for our Amber interview at 8:00 last night.

I You guys were making fun of me. They're like, she probably has her outfit picked out. So, I was like, I don't actually. Marissa was very excited.

Were too excited. See that? Loose. Now I forgot where I was going again because my memory is really bad.

You're a serial monogous. Oh, I was telling somebody last night that I it's actually I've been single now for about 14 months. That's probably

the longest I can remember ever being single. And it feels good. Yeah. It's just a new way of life to get

acclimated to. You go, girl. Yeah. Two snaps. That was like four.

What am I sounding gay? Oh, no. I just No, because this is a judge-free zone and we don't judge women. I thought we

were having a moment. We were. We were. Joe, I was there with you. You abandoned me in the moment. You [ __ ] You got me all here and I can't

I mean, listen, you know, I feel I feel you. I feel you. And working a lot, it does get like very

very lonely and, you know, to just have like a regular

person you meet just come and like snuggle or like make out with someone, it's just it's emptiness.

How often are you fearful? I heard you speak earlier about uh going to your first gig and being fearful. Uh because

it's a new experience. It's not something that you've, you know, and also rapping for me is my area of

comfort. So I'm never nervous. I'm never afraid. I'm never fearful. However, when you venture outside of that comfort zone,

I think fear is something that people in this ind industry experience a lot, especially women, and we don't really hear very much about

it. So I thought that was interesting that you said that. How often are you faced with like that feeling of fear or

self-doubt? Um, it's not I don't necessarily think it's self-doubt. Um, I do get a little

nervous. Um, with pretty much everything that I do. I mean, even my book coming out when I had to go do my signing

yesterday, I was like shaking like sign, you know, it's just like a big deal. You

know what I'm saying? But I always push through and finish. Um, that's always

like I set a goal for myself. Even with the book, the book took me a year. I could have been like, man, I don't feel like [ __ ] doing this [ __ ] anymore.

But I'm like, you know what? I'm not gonna stop until I finish this book. I go on a book tour. I promote it. I do

everything I need to do and I'm [ __ ] done. And it's out today. So, it's like, you know, I feel I like to do things

like that because even though I'm scared of it, at the end of it all, I feel accomplished.

What's your sign? I'm a Libra. I could have guessed that. Yeah, I like

to feel very accomplished. Um, I like to even when I start like a difficult hike or something like that in LA,

you hike and I want You do that whole runion runion cannon whatever that [ __ ] is. I took a couple different hikes and

stuff, but Oh my god. Did you say Thought Canyon? No, it's just every time a woman goes to LA, she always takes a picture

and I was very proud to draped in dry feet. Yeah, but you didn't lose no weight. You just went up there and took some pictures. So, I was still happy to be there. Like

people put on these [ __ ] gym clothes, go up LA is so fake [ __ ] trendy. Karen like ran up the whole mountain. I

was like miles behind her. Yeah. Shout out to Karen. Could never live in LA. Uh wait, let me ease drop on what

they're saying here. He's saying she's got to get the [ __ ] out. Oh, I got to get out of here, too, actually. Me, too. I got to take a nap. I probably got to

take out my car, too. I got I got press. Um we got like I got like 15 more minutes.

Not that we need to Whatever y'all need to do. I got like 15 more minutes. What time is it? It's 12:53.

12:53. And your car service is supposed to come at 12:45. Is that 12:45? Oh, that's what I told Serita.

Is it 12:45? Did the car service call? We'll figure it out. We'll figure it out. Which one of your tattoos are your favorite?

Uh, I don't know. Maybe my Whiz one. A Whiz

one. Oh, this one probably actually. What does that say? It says, "The world is a vampire." It's

a smashing pumpkins lyric. Smashing Pumpkins, you know, I I we've never met before,

but in meeting you, well, I've heard I've heard plenty about you. In meeting you, I could see like Peter speaks very

highly of you. Ibro has spoken very highly of you. Very many people have spoken very highly of you. They say you're the sweetest person ever. I could

see that. I could see I get that. I'm trying to figure out why that doesn't

resonate without meeting you. And I'm I don't know. I'm trying to figure that out because I I see the same thing. It's

applicable to myself as well. Like I watch myself on television. I look like a total dick.

A total dude. Um I'm ve I'm very easy to be mistaken for a total dick. I don't think I'm a

dick in person. Um you have your good days and you have your bad days. Thanks a lot, Marca. No problem. All right. So I can be a dick. Can

But Amber seems like the total opposite of all of her misconceptions. I am.

It's very frustrating, too. So, how do you rectify that? Or or do you care?

I just because I don't care. No, I I I used to. I definitely don't care anymore. Yeah. I've trained and conditioned

myself not to care because you kind of have to. That's an amazing place to be in life, isn't it? To just get to a point where

you're just like, I don't give a [ __ ] I don't care. Yeah. Yeah. It feels really good. I'm I'm

definitely I'm definitely at that point for sure. I mean, for me, it has its pros and its cons. Like, like I said,

I've trained myself to be that way, and it protects me from a lot of [ __ ] [ __ ] However, there's instances where I want

to show people that I care, but I don't know how to because I just don't care very often.

You ever have a day that it does affect you? Like, you just wake up having a bad day and see some [ __ ] online and it does [ __ ] get to you?

No. No. No. Nothing said about me by strangers alters anything for me. Like I can't I

get sensitive moments like when that GQ [ __ ] came out I was like really [ __ ] pissed. Like what was on GQ?

I'm not I don't even want to get into it. It was just like some ridiculous [ __ ] Yeah. And I just like it really really hit me in a different way and it

was like my birthday and like my son and I was just like Oh, that's why you woke up crying on your birthday.

Yeah. I woke up crying on my birthday and I was just like this [ __ ] sucks. But like the movement that I'm trying to

do is not easy. And um I'm taking all the hits for every woman out there. So

like when I go to these book signings and I go to these events and it's just like a plethora of women that are just

[ __ ] like, "Amber, thank you. Thank you for really taking all these hits for us." You know what I'm saying? I I do that.

And every time I go out and I go against a [ __ ] magazine or I say something like, you know, the conversation I just

had with Ebro or the interviews that I do, you know, it's really to bring awareness of like the [ __ ] [ __ ] and I'm

just sick of it. Okay. Yeah. Do you are you uh spiritual? I am very

religious. I'm not religious. No. Spiritual? Yeah. Okay. So, you don't really go to church?

I do not believe in church. I feel like there's a lot of bigots in the church based off my personal um you know life.

I've been to church a million times. I was baptized a Roman Catholic when I was

born. Then I became a born again Christian when I was 12. I got rebaptized. I used to go to church all

the time. And people were just fake as [ __ ] And I was just like I don't want to go to church anymore. I pray by

myself. Interesting. Mhm. What are you guys just not going to say

anything? Am I having my [ __ ] spiritual conversation about you having your I didn't want to interrupt your other moment. No, please interrupt. No, cuz it's going

to get real yoga in here in a second. Well, I mean to backtrack what you said about uh the magazines and this and

that. I mean, I think which I think your focus is the women that are at your book signing and that should be it, not what

people don't understand what you're doing because obviously there's a large group of women that do.

Yeah. So, well, well, no, it's for everybody. You know, I'm not going to sit here and talk your

ear off if you don't want to listen. That's fine, but I'm gonna let you know what it is, and then you can be like, I

don't really care for it. All right, cool. That's it. I mean, you know, I I'm not I'm not going to OD on you. I'm just

going to let you know what it is. Makes sense. Yeah, that's all. I can dig it. Do you do Are you into

sports at all? Um, I prefer baseball. If I'm into any sport, it would be baseball. I grew up

in like a baseball family. Do you have a baseball team? Do I have a baseball team? Yes. I do not have a baseball team.

Great. She's a Yankee fan. Wonderful. Look how that works. Oh, you're saying like, "Oh, like do I

probably the Phillies?" I'm from Philly, so I'm great. She's a Yankee fan. Well, tell we're not going to let you be a Phillies fan here. Um,

but if you were into football, if she was into football, I did really horrible in fantasy football this past

weekend, but it's okay. It's okay. You can't predict these things, but if you want to play against me in fantasy

football this week, join my league on FanDuel. It's easy. Head to fanduel.com/button. Pick your players. Stay under the salary

cap and sit back on Sunday and watch your team rack up points. That's fanduel.com/button

to join my league. And the spots fill up fast. So, make sure you get in before it is too late. You should do like fantasy

football, Amber. I don't really know how to play. I don't have time. I don't I have seven

assistants that I must tend to do. And I have a security guard. Duffy is here to

support me and lay in bed. I need someone to lay with me,

right? Do I have it? Do I have it about First of all, I don't talk like that. Two, I don't know how to play football.

And I don't have time for your frivolous American sports. Oh my god.

I don't do football. You know, when there was a little rumor about you and Amari. Um, that totally fake by the way. Totally

fake. Never happened. Nothing ever happened. I literally I literally took a picture

with him in the club when the photographers was like, "Hey, let me get a picture of you guys." And we like snapped a picture and that was it.

Yeah. But then that the whole rumor was going around and I'm a diehard Nick fan. Right. So, and I think the second that

happened, hey, don't shake your head at my Knicks. Um, at the second that that happened, I think the Knicks and Amari

started playing like pure [ __ ] I even tweeted you, I think, and you probably was my fault.

And you responded. Yeah, I told, "Oh, no. Maybe they were doing good." And I said, "Yes, whatever you're doing,

Amber, keep it going." What? Yeah. It's like that's like a reverse

Taylor Swift curse cuz you they say there's a Taylor Swift curse. Anytime she shows up to a sporting event, that

team just does horribly. She did it to my Knicks. There's a Drake effect, too.

They say that. Yeah. I don't I don't know. I don't I don't know. They say any celebrity that shows up, they always say they curse. Like they

said Jessica Simpson was cursing Tony Romo and she was, though. She was. And Sierra's cursing Russell Wilson.

They She is. She is. That's That's kind of true. Wait, don't let Amber jump in with her equality [ __ ]

Women Women cannot curse anyone. She needs her on the field. Yeah. Why isn't

they Why isn't Sierra playing quarterback? She can do it, too. Yeah, we don't want to do any of that. What's uh what's your favorite uh

cavedian dish? And can you cook cavedian foods? Um I would I guess the traditional kachupa.

Um I can't personally. That's my favorite by the way. Yeah. Kacupa. Um or what's the soup? Is it man chuba or

it's a similar name? Whatever my chef makes that day. Oh my god. I don't really have time for this. What

is this cooking stuff you guys speak of? I have four chefs in two kitchens. Joe, I grew up in a one-bedroom

apartment, poor as [ __ ] in Philly. Stop it. Yeah, but you got to stop that. See, we got to stop. I grew up addicted to angel

dust, damn near homeless in Jersey City. However, what I'm saying is that I come from very humble beginnings. As do I.

All right, so let I'm not I'm not Sometimes I have a chef. Not all the

time. I come from humble beginnings as well. But I mean, I've been away from that for

quite some time and who I am today. Sometimes you may not be able to pick up

my very humble beginnings. You got a chef, you got assistance, you got Duffy, you got security, you got shiny jerseys,

you got a great barber, you never take your shades off. You're like this [ __ ] mystery mystique woman here. Oh, stop it.

Yet Whiz got away. M I'm gonna get him back.

Wait, what's the future line? Uh I'mma get my [ __ ] back. Oh, I don't know off the top of my head.

I don't know. I think it's I'mma get my [ __ ] back. I'm going get my [ __ ] back. Amber's going to get her her [ __ ] back. Yep. Uh I root for that. I root for that.

Whiz uh me and Whiz have worked together. Um also cuz removing a tattoo hurts a lot. So that's why I also hope that works

out. I mean that's I mean regardless, she never has to move her tattoo. Yeah, that's that's a joke. That is a

great tattoo. I like how weed is next to Whiz. It has that just seems appropriate.

And dogs and Okay, we'll examine you at another time, but uh shout out to Whizy.

Uh I want to thank Amber for coming here. Uh you've been a great sport even.

I want to thank your professional caper that you have. Thank you very much. Appreciate it. Mendes, thanks for caping for Amber. We

really enjoyed it and had a blast. I didn't get to dig as deep as I wanted, but I appreciate that. No problem. Um, any final words for M

Thank you so much for joining us. This was long overdue. It was great to meet you. Nice to meet you guys, too.

Was it nice to meet us? Yeah, for real. So, if you're ever Oh, we've already met. So, was this one of your better uh press runs?

Was this easier? What? This interview? This Yeah. Was this I love this interview. Okay. It was I was here. That's why she loved

it. And because we weren't chauvinistic like Ebro when uh So, maybe next time you're in

New York. Well, not next time. one of the many times that you're in New York. We can do this again sometime.

Absolutely, Joe. Anytime. Or should I ask Joseph? See if we can pencas

my number. I do. We text. We send heart emojis. Well, I'll be in LA the 14th. Maybe I'll run. And I'll be in LA next month.

Oh, that's right. I wanted to go to both of those things. Why aren't they next to each other? So, maybe you So, what you Maybe we could do a podcast out in LA.

We should do that. That would be great without Marissa. No, with me. It's only happening with So, what you do is you just put Amber's

number in the group text so Rory and I when we head to LA, we can decide how we're going to figure I'm going to get

three flyyous and next and then next time we don't have to talk so much about like [ __ ] walk and like you know

Yeah, we can have a regular conversation. We can talk, you know what I mean? Like this is the talk about our weekends and right like you know and then my book is

out already so we can move on to other things. We could talk about um you know maybe more personal things and stuff

like that so you you guys can get to know each other. What we should do is we should all go hang out, right? And have

like a a great day out and then we can take mad Instagram pictures and pretend we're all best friends. Yeah, we know.

No, we will be best friends. And then then we'll talk about them. We can't do that cuz then people would say that Marissa, Rory, and Joe are

[ __ ] Amber. Having a full orgy. We don't want to.

Uh this has been great. Amber, thank you. Duffy, thank you. Thank you. A little talk. Uh and that's that. I'll

name this podcast later. Episode number 37, right? Yes, that. All right. All right.

We're going.