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why you ain't get out there and play

football because I was in the house

watching cartoons

catch a little catch no

little flag no flag football no no no

flag a little flag man flag football was

fun yeah go do the facts tackle touch

words yeah yeah Madden

that too

put the money on the table let's go

I used to get right out there in the

snow no oh that was that was fun

it was just cold and look the ground was

Frozen crown be hard everything was cold

one of them [ __ ] in school y'all said

something during the week I ain't like I

want to see about this morning that's

where you go get all your [ __ ] off

yo Damn I Wish I Still spoke to some of

my childhood friends what position you

play pause

all over the place the clown that's what

speaking to our childhood friends you

see that right remember that right I

didn't say nothing but remember that I

definitely remember okay

no I I did y'all think I don't remember

you know I'm doubling down I'm 100

doubling down on that [ __ ] are you

[ __ ] me oh man if I see one of my

childhood friends I feel like I'm doing

something wrong today them [ __ ] ain't

doing great

why are we clubbing together I mean we

still ain't cool yeah or that don't mean

they still on that I'm cool with mad

[ __ ] I don't want to see

yeah yeah see don't pop no no no no no

no no I just thought about what you said

I'm cool I'm talking with man friends

that's all right I'm gonna talk about

that that's different friends are cool

or different I'm not talking about that

yeah I got like 20 year friendships yeah

I got 38 years I can call the B right

now anybody that I like a friend that's

what he's talking about yeah oh but I

ain't never had any friends

don't need a lot

if I can go a Debbie and deal on mine

what's up with Dilly right sounds good

yeah feels good it feels real good

actually

is at his heart country oh yeah so oh

he's at home that's what's up

um all right

let me start with a little inspirational

quote okay come on man all right I'm

here today this almost made me cry a

little bit up in the house it's about

anger in men

funny how I post about anger and Men

could make a man like tear up a little

bit what all right here we go let's

start dangerous for our men

because men are more likely to fight

their way from depression to anger

because depression is not a good look

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on a brother

that's how we say that's what we think

and so while people will accept us as

women kind of laying back and oh always

me and they think that there's something

feminine about that and it's not it's

still depression but but our cultural

perspectives don't accept that for men

so depression can hide among women with

social stereotypes about them being

emotional but it can't hide with men

because it'll look weak so he has to

fight his way up off of that depressed

couch

and the only energy he can use to defend

himself against your attacks on his

masculinity is to fight his way out of

depression into a fury

here we are

when are men dropping like flies when

life expectancies at the bottom levels

in this country

because anger is literally shredding

their bodies and their immune system and

their productivity which is also so

related to how many men Define

themselves so if anger snatching both

their productivity and their physical

strength God

yeah

we gotta do something

she's talking she cooked

it's a little too

mic check one two one two laid back

Vibes right now

something like shout out to the first

and last time listeners It Go

shout out to everybody listening from

work

anybody listening they happy

relationship four bucks

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microphone check one two what is this

what episode is this 570 right welcome

to episode 570 of the Joe Budden podcast

I'm your humble gracious grateful and

highly favored host here with a few

really good guys brother issues here

Isis here Parks is here Corey is

somewhere and the young boys are in the

back y'all good back there

how's everybody doing great how y'all

feeling you brothers look great

feeling good man feeling very good how

was everyone's weekend

uh email text thread

uh it's all good yeah it was good it's

all good I went to another life summer

Dolphins get stumped

all right that was a great seats too it

was a good game through three quarters

and and that NFL concussion protocol

kind of [ __ ] us because Teddy

Bridgewater was not concussed and that

probably shouldn't have been a safety so

we're we're doomed right off the first

play

well I was get back from when you're all

sent dude out there concussed to finish

the game yeah that's some [ __ ] don't

try to send the black guy back back out

there now let's be sure

well [ __ ] that we want to be positive oh

yeah she's all good until someone Pat

Mahomes or something like that in the

playoff game and it's it's going to be

held to pay there's a lot of money on

the line that's true who's his backup

talk about a stressful job Chad Chad

honey

Chad Henney is Pat Mahone's backup yes

oh they must think that whole they never

getting hurt you're not he came in the

one playoff game and and held it came

right out right now oh no that game that

game that game yeah he held down for him

yeah I forgot what it was all right so

you saw your team get smacked in Med

life I did I did how was traffic uh it

was not great it was not great we took

an Uber in and took a train back the

train was miserable it was it was a bad

weekend to be moving around because

there was the Mets game there was the

Jets game and there was Comic-Con the

city was a mess yeah Comic Con

they don't play

they dress up and come out but it was

fun going to a game man I do actually

kind of prefer watching the game on TV

though to the game yeah you can't

because when the when they're down there

they're down there we had great seats it

was great on the 10-yard lines

huh Cowboys what about them we got a

real Stadium oh he's saying they got the

nice screen that no matter where they at

you don't matter where the screens

it's a little it's different it might be

I don't know no matter where you're

sitting I've never been to uh you are

yeah you've seen that screen right yeah

no doubt stop it

you've never been there

no all jokes aside no I haven't been

there Jokers that are not Cowboy fans

yeah be like yo y'all did that okay it's

like everybody in the league recognizes

this I don't know why you had to shove

it in Parks his face right now I was

telling my man

you know what I'm saying it's not

shoving in my face you bashing the

Giants and Jet Stadium

Yeah man they can get bashed too

no but yeah I get what you're saying

like if you sit in that down this end

what's up it was amazing seats when it

was right here when they flipped it when

they flipped the field

Abram traffic

tailgating yeah but even uh people

dressed up like hot dogs blocking where

I'm trying to drive like

the bad part the Jersey [ __ ] is it's

only one Highway yeah it's just all

three you know what I'm saying where's

other spots uh it's it's a couple

multiple ways in and out and it'll

disperse like will I'll give us an

example

but that's why I don't like going to

football games exactly what y'all are

describe here yeah yeah that's just here

though because like

that stadium is in the middle of nowhere

yeah the [ __ ] is one you go to some of

these other spots they Stadium downtown

yeah true everything is right there

sounds like a mess but it's still it's

still it's still easier to disperse the

traffic I am not into the spirit of

football enough to bring my spirit there

while they're playing

that was the fun part

tailgating in the parking lot you next

we'll be out there two hours

fan [ __ ] elbow

popcorn all over your wheels and your

team getting smacked yeah your team's

getting smacked

I have a hundred inch TV

why am I here that's a good point oh my

God and don't get me started on the Mets

oh my God what a disappointment

what a disappointment I was kind of like

when we were leaving the Jets game I was

like well maybe the Mets will win it'll

be a New York weekend I'm rooting for

the Mets to you know go far in the

playoffs and then they [ __ ] blow it

it's over so yeah they out of here I

think I don't watch baseball the Padres

sent them home the fathers yo dog let me

ask you this do you stand with that

system

what you mean the play in play out [ __ ]

that's three games I like it it used to

be myself

it's best of three I love it it reminds

me of the old NBA best of five

I like that for sure it gives the kind

of team that can upset you a chance to

actually upset you

um and not only that it gives teams

incentive to finish the season strong

which is where the Mets blew this entire

thing the match shouldn't have been

playing they shouldn't have been here

like to explain it to you you should

have made the it's like a wild the Mets

the Mets were one of the best teams it's

like the NBA's uh playing they're

playing [ __ ] they got them the Mets were

the best team all year okay until the

last month yeah

um

got it so now they become the what are

they the four

three to four to five through the four I

think they would have four something

like that so they become the four even

if they beat the Padres now you got the

Dodgers

word because you had one bad moment

being like a woman being your number one

team and then playing all the bombs or

two because that's what the team because

that's what the team was built for like

that's why you spend all that money on

pitching Matt shares would make

43 million dollars a year or 33 million

dollars a year the Grom makes 25 million

dollars a year they shortstop makes 30

something million dollars a year the

team was just built

to contend but if you ain't gonna be

there then yeah I get it the Padres

spent some money got a few [ __ ] over

there yeah Padres

they wasn't they was you had to

acknowledge them so good for the match

bad for the Mets I call my dad of course

to ask him what what went wrong if

anybody wants to know huh better stop

talking

well I already said I don't have the

Yankees winning no they gonna [ __ ]

around and be a judge doorstep no

they're gonna they didn't already yeah

with the Rolls Royce and some flowers

racing some flowers I asked my dad what

happened with the Mets and he says he's

a baseball Hood he says too many white

boys on the match

I see where you get it from though now

he said you can't win in baseball

without [ __ ] some of them you better go

to Dr yeah

you need to do what I'm here oh [ __ ] man

no well and he said uh the pitching the

guys they paid all the money to uh it

picked real bad times to have slumps to

have slumps so but the first reason too

many white boys

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it just sounds funny hearing it though I

know exactly what you mean

how Duke used to win all them uh

basketball games on white boy and move

on Space they didn't have a bunch of

white boys Duke Duke

it's a misconception dog

take away Christian Leighton and Danny

Ferry

don't

I'm about to say the [ __ ] that got

busy was blacks

no they had a lot of white boys over

there they had some blacks they always

had a few token blacks to get busy but

anyway we're not starting this podcast

with race

and for the rest I'ma start putting a

doll in that thing every time I make it

about race

you don't got enough money

you gotta go to the bank you should join

me though

why I don't do that I'm trying to get

off my [ __ ] [ __ ]

everybody say yo you say [ __ ] Too Much

[ __ ]

I agree

you too [ __ ] oh I know but now I'm

gonna try oh my I'm trying to stop I'm

never where would you gentlemen like to

begin

with your man all right this is my last

it's got to be

this is my last week my last pod

of commentating Kanye of connotating

Kanye tating

it's my last week ain't gonna do

something for Halloween well listen but

listen but let's do something for

Halloween he back if you think I will be

looking at the girls oh you were French

maid

wow oh you fell on my phone

Jessica Rabbit you think I'll be focused

on Kanye listen as I said to myself

this is the last part I'm talking about

Kanye it's snapped snapped in my head

that I say this every other year about

Kanye West

so I recognize the pattern now and

that's the important thing so I can't

keep I can't just stick to this pattern

I have to stop because he's going to try

to sell me something soon

he's already premiering yeah he's gonna

try and sell some music and while I am

going to listen to it

I'm not I don't have to be a part of the

seven eight month nine month lead up

roll out I don't I hope Mike Dean put

Kanye [ __ ] out with fart on it too

for real that should just be the new

thing just put the [ __ ] music out with

the farts yeah yeah

remember like when people used to uh

they were bootlegging albums and they

had the Z share link and you would click

it but it would be [ __ ] it would be

pumped up actually pump it up for 80

minutes long it'll be uh or on LimeWire

when it was Bill Clinton Bill Clinton

yeah yeah that should be the new one

farts oh you Rick Rolled somebody

uh but okay Kanye said some things

I'm not repeating what he said

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I don't know if I wanted he said it's up

for a couple people

so he was going Defcon 3 on some folk

for a group of people A specific group

of people

the wrong group of people yeah yeah

you know he's been trying to offend

everybody and you know who could I piss

off all right well here you go

he went to the top of the Heat and now I

think he stands in that though

I really do I think I don't think he

stands in anything like that I think he

does it all for attention a little video

thing everything bro he put out uh the

little half hour whatever that was

behind the scenes he said something

about

got to get people riled up and then it's

going to disappear and not say anything

for a while

he said that that's what he does

I disagree gented tears Jamie Lee Curtis

Jewish people Jamie Lee Curtis is

speaking what are you doing

this is it's it's I mean it's bad enough

that fascism is on the rise around the

world but

on Twitter on a portal to pour that in

as if Jewish people haven't had it hard

enough I've interviewed you a number of

times I have never seen your eyes well

up in Anger like that I literally yeah I

woke up and was I thought

my grandparents yeah

yeah

it just it's it's it's just abhorrent

it's important Behavior I hope he gets

help I hope his children get help from

him

Jamie Lee Curtis

who I like Legend

who I like a lot

fam

I remember that movie

can you speak up and what are you

laughing

my grandparents like fam stop what you

mean no

that's cool

you can't single out an entire group of

people race religion Creed and say

You're Gonna Go Defcon 3. I'm going to

not have some people that are like I

totally agree I agree thinking about

their grandparents or their whatever

their kids whatever it may be if you

agree then why doesn't it sound like you

agree I'm agreeing that what he said

he shouldn't have said you can't

and I agree with what happened with them

unplugging him from everything I'm with

all of that I'm just also

number you think she was putting sauce

on it yes I don't think she was putting

sauce on it but it don't even matter if

she is right because once you

acknowledge that you shouldn't have done

the initial behavior and that that was

wrong then you're not responsible for

how uh then you're all responsible for

how people receive it and if that is hey

my grandparents

then okay

but anyway I'm gonna I'm on the Jew side

with this by the way

me too I'm on it I'm on I'm on the Jew

side they got this one right

this is all the way right

let me ask you a question

did y'all hang out together over the

weekend no I didn't know before the BART

all right thank god

um although the outrage is warranted

definitely you can't disrespect some

people and

um

allow it to be cool

my whole thing is

if he would have said that about a

different group of people that may not

be as powerful does it get the same

media coverage and the same headlines

maybe not probably not I'm gonna go a

step further and say he knew that which

is why he said it about them

you get what I'm saying like that's my

whole thing like he's been he's wrong

let's be the [ __ ] clear he's dead wrong

in what he's saying I just need the

world to be outraged when somebody

points out a different group

you know what I'm saying well no because

there are some other Jewish people that

are saying

hey uh he said what he said and

everybody else seems Mighty quiet about

it it's why is uh and I can pull up

where who said it why why is why is it

always Jewish people to reply or respond

or Express that that's wrong when

there's hate against Jewish people same

thing that black people say when when uh

the same thing happens to us hey why

aren't why aren't you guys standing up

if you're not standing up for that then

you're complicit in it so that's true

um no no I'm with it I'm saying he's

wrong he should have been unplugged yeah

my thing is if he would have said that

about other a different group

I don't know if we unplug him so so

quickly we know because we can't

and that's my problem we don't have the

power to

yeah but it's got to be us it could be a

totally different group that's not us

it's just they got the power but if and

if we did have the power we would unplug

them we would unplug his ass we would

have been unplugged his ass you are

correct so I'm with you we should have

we should get some power yeah

but I'm totally not mad at the people

who have some power shutting your dumb

ass up using it because just the other

part I said all right this guy seems to

be alienating or causing [ __ ] with the

street [ __ ]

the companies who else I said uh there

was a few people I said the Liz oh [ __ ]

he just he's checking boxes yeah so

what's the final box like who's the

final boss on Super Mario when you go

through the castle and you my whole

thing with that is ice keeps lending to

he has an objective

um he got something coming out or he

rolling something out or he's trying to

sell something I don't see how that

would be advantageous for him to piss

off every single demographic and then

come out with a product that I mean he

don't because they all talking so and to

a lot of these folks that's that don't

mean money

listen if I'm yay and everything I put

out

sales all I want y'all to do is talk now

that's it that's all I need to get you

all to do is talk so I'll say whatever

to piss you off whatever to piss you off

whatever piss you off whatever piss you

off y'all are all gonna talk

then I can deliver whatever it is I want

to deliver it's not true fam he's been

doing it that's not true this is his

this is his yeah this is his thing he's

been riling up public attention he has

not been totally disrespecting every

potential group of people in an effort

to sell a product damn he put the mega

hat on and went and ran right out there

slavery was a choice this is disrespect

he just added some groups to the list

yeah he just adding more people that

matters

and the sad part is there's a lot of

people that will tune into whatever he's

dropping next be it uh YouTube or

whatever if only to find some more [ __ ]

to get mad at him about I know we talk

about selling a product

that is selling a product I disagree

just clicking it it's it's purchasing

the product it's not getting the money

if he goes and sits with Tucker Carlson

he ain't getting the money he's not

reaping the benefit to that if I put out

a project and people who never knew I

was putting out a project until they saw

me on Tucker Carlson now knows of this

project and I'm saying people go click

it guess what I'm reaping the benefits

of sitting with Taco Casa yeah I have to

disagree with you here we'll see now I

will say

from my seat I don't know what all of

these benefits could be yeah I think

this bites him into us I don't think

this is so well for him I assume that he

sees a benefit

because listen everywhere that I have

gone over the weekend I'm talking about

older white people Korean people young

people they were discussing Kanye West

right so while I may be tired of it

because I'm engulfed in this [ __ ] media

and y'all might be tired of this [ __ ]

everywhere else his name is buzzing and

ringing he's hit now I wouldn't do it

I wouldn't do it at all but there has to

be some type of game for him I also do

think this is littered with a little bit

of trolling I do I do I do I think I

think some of this is an act I think a

lot of it is trolling and I think that I

just don't see how and maybe this is my

naive brain this is new to me I just

don't see how it pans out advantageous

to him financially and whatever you're

trying to sell you're losing demos like

crazy and you're trying to sell a

product that's the thing I don't think

he's losing demos he's pissing people

off

he's not losing demos see that's the

part of it that's what we disagree at

right there but that's I mean you're

more well versed in this than me Outrage

marketing right like I've seen it myself

by mistake I'll say certain things all

of my people will be outraged and my

audience grows

negativity now what I do when that

houses how's it different all right let

me let me explain Joe runs a media

company so in media Howard Stern and

Imus set the standard Petey Greene set

the standard where people that don't

like you they want to hear the ignorance

[ __ ] you're going to say Rush Rush

Limbaugh Rush another one right they

want to hear what you say open Anthony

the list is long so

in Kanye's stance if he were going to

drop music then maybe he's dropping me

he's dropping no I'm saying it's no man

Drop Music he's 100 dropping music I'm

saying maybe it benefits him then I'm

talking about with regards to selling

physical merchandise and products you

are pissing off huge demographics that

support your products the black people

buy your [ __ ] it's a lot of black people

saying I won't never buy a pair of

Yeezys again [ __ ] him the jewel people

buy your [ __ ] Michael Jordan said money

don't see uh what do you say when he's

trying to sell them sneakers

and Michael Jordan never go out on the

limb and say [ __ ] no demographic neither

you won't do it of course man I'm with

ice yeah well CJ said exactly what he

was trying to say in that puff message

I'm selling [ __ ] and I'm getting to the

money that's all this is

all I think it's a miscalculation it

remains to be seen it's by any means

necessary I don't like it I don't like

it either it is it is we're gonna see

unfortunately effective in this day and

age especially when you're the product

that you're he's got a lot of different

products but music I see it he's selling

himself being this polarizing person and

let me say because this has a few fronts

uh for me uh

wow this [ __ ] appears to be unhinged all

of this Behavior

I do think that there is a thinking man

behind it

in the past

I haven't always felt that way

I haven't always felt like there was a

thinking functioning brain behind the

action and that's where it got to hey is

Kanye's mental health okay how's he

doing like you start to see you could

see and that's when they was talking

about the meds that he was on and off

like

I don't think he was that great of an

actor I believe there to be

some disturbance going on then today

he looks healthy yo

his weight is there his eye pupils are

there the skin coloration is there when

he ain't purposely trying to look Dusty

I'm just saying it don't call in to play

his mental health for me uh the people

that love him outside of Dame I haven't

heard them start screaming hey

something's wrong something's wrong like

they were last time uh my heart goes out

to Kim

because the report came out that she now

is hiring extra security for the kids

and a lot of topics this this show will

be centered around kids let me just pull

the cat out the bag

um

as a parent I feel that I don't even

think about that part as a parent I feel

that right that's the name of the school

out there yeah

yeah some of that stuff is like an

excuse how old is his oldest for me I

don't know

they're fairly young though

big kids man yeah the oldest the oldest

is probably she's sevenish nine-ish

that's not that young anymore bro nine

is old enough that's not that young

anymore you are old enough to start

knowing who your dad is who your mom is

your your your your your schoolmates are

talking oh yeah

that's not that young anymore my [ __ ]

and so when y'all start talking about

this calculated mind that is doing all

of this stuff if if his calculated brain

is telling him to do that then he really

needs more help than we think or

it's a calculated brain where I'm only

out for self

so is it really that calculated yes it's

extremely calculated I'm only

calculating for me though bruh you're

calculating wrong yeah yeah I'm not

agreeing with it but I'm just saying

I still think this [ __ ] knows exactly

what he's saying and doing I disagree

just don't give a [ __ ] who it hurts yeah

his response even to the Jewish [ __ ] was

like what did he say I can't be anti

anti-semitic because I'm black and

blacks the juice the real Jews like a

dog

oh God oh God I'm not saying a word I'm

not saying a word yes I am aware that

there are black Jewish people I do not

think that that is the appropriate

response to

that [ __ ] he said it's not that's

all I'm saying no that's all I'm saying

don't be cousin Walter I didn't say two

words

that his response makes zero sense

because if you feel like the blacks are

the original Jews then who you go on

Defcon right you sound stupid and this

is where I'm talking in riddles and this

is to all of my [ __ ] that keep

defending him every single time he sits

on a public platform he says something

totally contradictory or totally

different than what he said on the last

platform as the justification for the

White lives matter shirts yeah he just

had like seven different excuses for the

White lives matter shirt and I do

appreciate that I appreciate that as a

media person though that you ain't just

giving the same story hey lie over here

lie over here everybody

is I do not think this next album is

going to be better than donda no so like

you're doing all this for what what's

the mid that little snippet go go [ __ ]

with Drake or whatever go [ __ ] the

future let me ask you a question yeah

was it what didn't sound like some of

that other [ __ ] if he if he called you

to write for him never he went right for

him right I would not I'm just saying

I've said that before I think the okay

has called me a liar or the audience

call me a liar but I I wouldn't do that

I don't think you would I don't think he

would either I don't think he would know

what I'm saying now I try my best to not

be in any room that he's in bruh and

that's what I'm about to say I think

with some of these Antics which are not

taken from this is some people are tired

of him dog black white purple brown some

[ __ ] are tired of him some will

still go wherever for the bag but some

[ __ ] standing I'm not even

doing it for the best some people and

that's what you're talking about

celebrities yes some people stand in the

level of morals yeah I don't think he

would be able to bro he's not gonna go

get all them same people that he got to

go [ __ ] with donda they not [ __ ] with

him son y'all got Kanye [ __ ] up bro

ice you live in this this this internet

troll [ __ ] I'm not everybody nothing no

I'm talking about with him and what

people do some [ __ ] stand on

something I agree with you I'm telling

you that a lot of these rap [ __ ] Ain't

Got the morals you talking about cool

cool I think y'all both are right them

[ __ ] with that phone ring from Kanye

they on that for like me some [ __ ]

I don't think he gets Jada kissing them

on that flight

again I don't think he might get Royce

on that flight don't have to I had him

already he ain't getting worse

certain [ __ ] is not going over there

to [ __ ] with him he might get some but

he's not gonna get that same sauce

where's the Slime ain't going over there

you go what I'm saying

there's some [ __ ] over there that's

not [ __ ] with him like that I agree

with you you are [ __ ] embarrassing

everyone but it's a lot of [ __ ] who

are going to answer that phone this is

the greatest Potter when he gets

fashioned all right he's making it seem

like it's a troll things

with them [ __ ] then he will all right

cool that's up please oh look Thug in

jail who else is on that [ __ ] that's in

jail anybody locked up let me tell you

something even some of these younger

that's the only person he really knews

even some of these younger [ __ ] some

of these younger [ __ ] are starting to

stand in

Unison with

black power right I couldn't think of

something better to say I don't know if

they [ __ ] with him

as we understand what you're saying yeah

but there are some like the ones that

got money like some of them that got a

couple because some of these [ __ ]

getting some money yeah I don't know if

they they need to check that bad and

they'll nor do they need Kanye

validation you're gonna get a sweetie

verse it's still a little list of people

you can get over there there's quite a

few people he can get over there bro

no way

as long as the Yo Gotti's still cool let

me get his whole roster over there

I'm trying to tell y'all like

what are we talking about he he get a

group of [ __ ] that could put some

music together hey Travis had that

brownie party turned up didn't he

[ __ ] I was home saying I get those

goosebumps every time

that was something

that's what they was doing I never

wanted to be around a 16 year old so bad

what was the party for yo I gotta give

that to LeBron another reason he's

better than Jordan every time you see

him at the party that [ __ ] got it lit

oh yeah he is dancing jumping turning up

and down another reason he better than

Julie yeah it was just memories

no he he [ __ ] with his kids I mean it's

a different generation with videos and

stuff but it seemed like yo he just is

is that father yeah

every basketball game halftime arguing

like he involved involved so it seems

oh I do there's that voice in my eyes

do we want to be cool and smooth they

got on me for my alley board should I

keep it smooth

I'll keep it a little smooth how the

[ __ ] do why the [ __ ] we know

I said seems I know but there's a lot in

them seems word this [ __ ] has been

LeBron James since the fifth grade I

think oh man but we're going to talk

about kids a lot I get it his I think

his wife has done a stellar phenomenal

job at just and he'll stay too so I mean

I ain't saying nothing wrong that just

raising the kids even in his absence

I would agree with that now that's not

to say he's not involved no no no no no

I do think he's involved but as involved

as you can be as you try to beat LeBron

James yeah yeah that's what I was saying

baby God damn it

I'm not getting back into my Tom Brady

no but but listen the difference is this

Tom don't want to see these kids

[Laughter]

I know the difference

is Leonard for not healthy or not

that [ __ ] been a talking to Gronk every

summer

Croc we need you yo what you doing kid's

banging on the door hey Daddy teach me

how to throw the football no [ __ ]

and LeBron's son is brownie like Tom

Brady ain't name his kid Tom Brady Jr

he had no faith

yo we got our little thing in the

beginning right where it says it's all

your jokes

oh man yo oh [ __ ] anyway huh

you're stupid

what was the LeBron party for

his son's birthday okay

well let's hit the Roundup Applause too

his son also got that uh

in il deal yeah could you just imagine

turning 18 you LeBron's son

man

I think about that all the time being

LeBron

in L.A

man

and you just got a deal yeah

you don't even need the deal pile it off

you didn't need the deal you don't need

a deal but it helps what the hell

my life ain't gonna change at all with

an n i i or L [ __ ] [ __ ] you got your own

[ __ ] now you can that's a different type

of Pop [ __ ] I don't know because all the

kids that come up and say oh you just

you're just hot because you're pop so

you'll be like I got my little [ __ ]

though yeah what should you got for

yourself I've trademarked my Brawn and

brawny that's like when you [ __ ] start

the extra YouTube page of YouTube clips

now hey we got both of these

hey they got them both Brownie and Brian

bro and shout out to all the college

kids the uh high school kids that got

that deal yeah it was Nike gave out five

of them oh wow okay we'll see I wouldn't

say nobody else name

I mean I ain't saying nobody named but

Victor what about being moved too and

School Anderson let me not disrespect

school but I'm the only talking about

Victor

bamboo that's it

that is the future they jumped on your

ass porzingis who that's what they said

that's what they said what he he's a

little bit better version of porzingis

hell no come on I'm not doing this no

I'm not I'm telling you what they said

and check yeah I could see you making

that argument oh my God Chad who nah

chest nice don't do that don't do that

to Victor talk about [ __ ] you do that a

lot yo stop I'm not I like that yeah L.A

stop it this is recording Sam I just

said I could go home we are recording

this so whatever you about to say can be

cemented lamented in podcast history for

the next 20 years I like him the kid is

18. I like them

I like you putting Vic and chat Home

Green let me try to this podcast maybe

through the roof let me see if I can get

it

are you saying don't make it racy

are you saying that well because black

[Laughter]

blue bamboo and Chet Home Green belong

in the same sentence

they already think all of our Sports

takes the trash

um

sentence

no I don't think he's better I don't

think he's better than what I've seen

with Vic but listen hold up though the

competition that I've seen Vic plan is

not the same level as Chet either

I understand that that matters

Victor's better than him from what I've

seen I understand that

do you think that Chet hungry belongs in

the same sentence with Victor bamboo

to that you say

yes

there you have it

in time will tell Rob clip that up for

me

Hey Thomas and I'm gonna give it the

time every time

[Laughter]

oh [ __ ] all right come on let's get into

let's get into all the sensitive stuff

off the internet is there anything music

we have to talk about I want to shout

out to Freddie Gibbs again because just

what an album I just want to shout them

out again sometimes the albums come out

we listen it's great and then we don't

say it again what an album

both of them dropped two really really

really really good albums

delivered

yep that's it yeah that's that's it

that's my music tech yeah top 20 list so

far yes well uh Tori I don't put them

because it's rap and R B I don't know

where to put his albums but Gibbs is

definitely already in the list

come on let's start out all of our child

support segment with uh 50 and his son

whether that was his son saying that

sixty seven hundred dollars a month is

not yes not enough to do nothing

uh for that I think

the internet flamed him up a little bit

they did they did

um

that's a lot all 50 did was post the

scene from Power

yeah wow

when um when when Kanan killed Sean yeah

and he said no captions damn

and then his son replied with well since

all y'all think 6700 is so much he

spelled out the word entitled in money

and he said since all y'all think 6 700

is so much uh tell him tell my dad that

I will pay 6 700 uh for him to come and

spend some time with me

I dropped a little Thug tear yeah now

that's that speaks volumes I mean we

could which which which way you want any

way you want any way you want to go I

think in in watching a video with him

talking about the sixty seven hundred

dollars he just seems misinformed you

get what I'm saying he just seems like a

kid how old is he 19. I'm not sure I

think he's roughly around 1920.

um he just seems to misinform he's

devaluing what 6700 is

right he asked homeboy yo what could you

do with 6 700 he's 25.

oh damn

that nigga's a man that [ __ ] I'm grown

grown but sixty seven hundred dollars

dog to most of America is more than what

they make and you taught me and he's not

paying taxes on the 6700. he'll pay

taxed on child support [ __ ] no so what

he said so basically you talking about

80 grand that's a hundred and twenty

thousand dollar job

[ __ ] that's doctors make that some

doctors make that some attorneys make

that they'll take care of themselves you

get what I'm saying so you talking about

seven somebody seven thousand dollars a

month is a lot of money it is and you

saying it like it's trash

well

yeah because what some of them were

reminding him was child support is

supposed to be a mutual thing your dad's

half so you take that and you add

another seven he kept he kept slipping

that Jab he kept slipping the job he's

like yo that's your father's portion

what about the portion from your mother

well that's where my focus is right

because you're absolutely right about

everything you're saying that he said

but he's getting that download from

somewhere sure

and that's the part there I don't want

to overlook sure so whatever feelings he

has about the child support

um about his dad

the why you're here why you're not here

the ill feelings that he has towards his

dad I'm not saying it's it's all from

somewhere

but we've seen this before we're a large

part of that

is coming probably from Mom a third

party

and if that's coming from Mom

and I'm I'm not arguing anything in this

I'm just having a conversation yeah

we're just talking and if a large part

of that is coming from Mom

and we ain't had the best relationship

and you taking pictures with

uh to do son who tried to kill me

and we just don't have a relationship

and maybe never have one I don't know I

can't speak on it

and you're 25 now

this is going to sound harsh

Bob

does a dad ever have the right to say

y'all don't want nothing to do with you

actually that's the thing it's called

disowning

here's the thing that's the thing y'all

ain't got to tense up come on we talking

about that I'm just listening that's the

thing just listening thinking that's

it's not it's not covered too much but

listen let me tell you I've been on

Plenty of therapy couple therapy shows

where

my problems were the least of the

worries in the house there was some

people in there that ain't seen their

fathers in 30 40 and 50 years never met

my dad I don't know what's going on my

dad got a new family is he alive is he

not alive and the therapist was going

out to find these dads and one by one

she'd bring dancing

and most of the time it ended with the

dad saying

door I don't give a [ __ ] about nothing

that you're talking about like your mom

did x y z this is the position that I

was in I left nobody made an attempt to

do none the same way I didn't make an

attempt I started a new family I'm over

here and you grown

that's it and the fathers will be out

and then I'd have to look at that person

crying breaking down because you don't

understand how how somebody could say

something like that but it's real

so though I can't imagine it and I can't

picture being in it

um how do we have a conversation about

it

it's it's a deeper conversation

um you you touched on like four or five

different points

um

one I think the third party thing is

evident I think that um he spoke on yo

we talking about Forbes listed blah blah

blah blah so he talked on that piece

almost to say I think if it was 10 grand

it still wouldn't have been enough

I agree you get what I'm saying if it

was him getting 10 grand a month it's

still not enough I think that um the

piece that you talked about when he said

y'all I'll give him 6 700 to come spend

time that's a megaphone to me same yeah

that's the Crux of it you understand

like that's a megaphone to me I think

that at this particular juncture you 25

years old you don't you can't navigate

your way through this because he's

borderline celebrities that you know

what I mean like he needs that your

mother can't guide you through that the

[ __ ] in the street can't guide you

through that so the [ __ ] that can

really guide you through that and I

don't I never met 50 Cent in my life but

every time I I hear him speak I'm drawn

into him because he got a lot of common

sense

and a bunch of other sins you know what

I'm saying talks on business well like I

just think that you know sitting with

them [ __ ] is a wealth of information

and his son could benefit from that

wealth of information no question

because I'm saying so that might be the

that's the cry

now I want you to respond you know what

I'm saying like yo I'ma say all this

[ __ ] I want you to respond so we can

have it in the media so now somebody can

say yo dog why don't you go sit with

them that might be that that's only one

see that's the thing that makes it tough

that's a hard one normally I'm able to

speculate or use some foresight or

imagine a situation this is one of those

where I can't because I can't imagine I

didn't feel like that when my dad wasn't

there and then he came around I wasn't

angry at him so I can't put myself in

the shoes of the kid that's angry at

their parent I feel you on it

um I also can't put myself in 50 shoes

because not only could I never see

myself doing it but 50 I believe to be

hardened in a way that I am not because

of his experiences and things that he's

gone through the people that I have

being as hardened as him I know that

they think a bit differently

that's true I can't put my brain in that

in that to understand it

so I just try to respect it yeah

um I can speak on my personal situation

after a while

I wasn't mad at my father

I ain't really [ __ ] with you you know

what I'm saying but I wasn't tight like

if I seen him I say hi I wasn't like you

know walking by him not speaking and you

know what I'm saying um

as you get older people just do what

they do and you got to kind of let them

be who they are now let me let me ask

you a question true

in your situation and I'm not saying

this is what's happening with 50 and his

son but just in the conversation

you didn't have your mom

kind of attaining your thoughts never

your father never I didn't have that

either never I think in certain

instances that place

a major part but in my instance that's

more reason for you to dislike this

[ __ ]

because my mother was like yo

open to it you get what I'm saying like

my mother wasn't like no no your father

ain't [ __ ] you can't go see him my

mother was like rock out and you still

did not put forth an effort you still

didn't take any initiative to bond or

have a relationship

um so that would have been more reason

for me to be mad I'm just saying me and

who I am everybody wouldn't respond to

the same stimulus the same way it was

like [ __ ] you dog I'm good

and so in our upbringing kind of does

that you know what I'm saying like dog

I've got time to wallow

I gotta get to it right so whether you

hear what and my father was doing well

like my father's DC cop had money cars

all that [ __ ] was doing well we were

struggling I still ain't look at you

with no content like I don't [ __ ] with

you like that but I'm not gonna uh uh so

you have no idea why he wasn't present

it was a choice

but no idea why he made that choice no

never wanted to know

um I did want to know but after a while

it was like [ __ ] it yeah what you all

right so when I

all right so I got shot when I was 20.

right so I got shot when I was 20. I

moved to Maryland

when I turned 21. mm-hmm

to go to school so I was in college when

I got shot I moved to Maryland when I

was 21 to go to school

so I lived with my father for maybe

I moved in in January I probably moved

out in June

okay you know what I'm saying like I

moved in in January you know it was cool

my father worked a lot like cops work a

lot they'd be doing OT and all that [ __ ]

so I barely would see my father it was

like months that I wouldn't even see him

because I would be going to school when

he would be coming home and then by the

time I got home from school he would be

gone doing 16 hour shifts right so it

was literally like I had a house to the

net

but in that

you had an opportunity for us to iron

out whatever issues man the man I'm 21

years old now so whatever you could have

gotten off your chest apologetic you

could have explained yourself you could

have done whatever you had to do you

didn't do and you didn't take a almost

like one of my aunts told me it was like

um

he told her like yo she said yo you had

enough opportunity to to write all of

your wrongs this is his sister his

sister okay said yo you could have right

right all your wrongs and you didn't

even take advantage of that opportunity

with his family yeah yeah okay cool

um but some people they just gonna be

who they are yo especially when you come

you start talking about men that's a

good lead-off that you wrote men

sometimes look at any

um

we just taught to be so tough yo we just

taught not to be vulnerable or sensitive

or any of that [ __ ] because it's looked

at its weakness and it's really a

strength it's not a weakness and when

you start talking about older men my

father didn't have a father you know

what I'm saying like all of that [ __ ] is

just and so you don't you really don't

know what to do like you know why your

father didn't have a father

um from my understanding like I never

met my father's father you understand

what I'm saying so from my understanding

he went to work one day and then come

back

he was getting dressed every day acting

as if he had a job and he didn't have a

job uh so yeah I wouldn't want answers

to those questions you know what I'm

saying even if I don't have the best

relationship I would want to know the

family history yeah yeah why did Grant

why did Dad not have a dad so what did

he do we we I don't want to we already

in a serious space we're serious no

we're already in serious space so so

think about this from a black

perspective a lot of us are growing up

in single parent households that's why

it's okay to us that's why it's okay

like you feel like you are okay yeah

it's normal it's normal you feel like yo

I'm good I'm okay

so for you to leave your family or your

baby's mom to have a over run it by

herself I turned out okay she gonna be I

mean we really feel like that like a lot

of dudes really feel like man I hear

Joker say we got friends [ __ ] be like

yo I'm saying man take care of my kid

man give my baby 80 a month my child

support is paid it's like yo my [ __ ]

you can't feed a rottweiler with eighty

dollars a month what the [ __ ] is you

talking about to bring it back to uh I

was joking earlier about Brownie's uh

party that he had but watching that the

first thing I said was damn I think I

could tell the difference when kids grew

up like with their dad now yeah even

talking to girls you can hear the

difference and we get mad at all these

black women

and we say all these things about black

women dog a lot of these women have

grown up in situations where they've

never seen a positive male figure when

I'm talking to girls I used to talk to

girls you could sit on the phone and

hear in the first half an hour 45

minutes who had a father in the

household I think in the in that old

video in that old video game double

dribbled before the [ __ ] got on fire

wasn't there a noise or something that

happened that's NBA Jam

oh yeah

Audrey no but so so you're right so from

a male perspective it's a little easier

for the male to talk to their daughter

or for the for the daughter to seek you

know what I'm saying like it's a

difference like for men to sit down and

have that conversation with men because

now you got to just be totally

vulnerable

and most people not really willing to do

that so again I live with my father

probably from January to maybe like June

or July he was a cop cops would be dicks

he be at you know what I'm saying I'm

like yo [ __ ] I'm out of here your story

remind me uh and I'm not trying to be

funny here but in Law and Order this was

the same thing that was going on with

Elliot stapler

his child

he worked a lot

and

his child just didn't have a good

relationship with him because yo you a

copy you're never there when I need you

I think Jack Bauer's child and that show

was beef and beefing with him too right

yeah your story reminds me of both so so

in some of those instances even with the

Tom Brady [ __ ]

when you when you start talking about

you have an option to be here

you are electing to put a sport before

and I want to judge him but what it

seems like from the outside looking in

you have an option to be in your kid's

life and you are electing voluntarily

not to do so for a sport where you are

already cemented as the greatest

what more do you have to get from the

sport

it ain't money because we we up over

here Mommy up you up

now it could be viewed a certain way my

[ __ ] it can I I now have a better

understanding of your Tom Brady tick you

get what I'm saying like you you elected

voluntarily not to be here like my

mother's begging you in the media to

spend time with us

and you saying not football first you

saying nah

how do your kids view that

you get what I'm saying it ain't like

because we know a bunch of scenarios

where the mother be the [ __ ] like

let's be clear about that too these

mothers be [ __ ] and they and they

wedge something in between you and your

kid you know what I'm saying they tell

the live stories they do all the [ __ ]

[ __ ] to where you can't necessarily be

there for your kid you fighting in court

and doing all of that with the Tom Brady

[ __ ] it's not that

yo this girl is begging her husband in

the media to come the [ __ ] home and you

are saying no but I don't know the

situation the detail that's why I've

never taken that stage I don't know how

often he's home you know what I mean he

might be able to practice and watch tape

for way less time than he usually did

and work out he might be around all that

could be true but when I hear his talk

I'm hearing the perspective of a child

yeah bro and that's and where those

things could be true and so what the

child don't care about none of that [ __ ]

so what what more can you gain from

football

no no that's what I'm saying like what's

the trade-off what more can you gain

from football another championship all

right now you got eight you don't got

seven

you know what I'm saying so here's my

phone I got another clip I'm sure to

make

so so when you when you see the LeBrons

yeah like dog that [ __ ] warms your heart

this [ __ ] be in the summertime at all

the [ __ ] AAU games sitting there with

his [ __ ] at halftime y'all he'll go up

to him at timeouts like yo I've missed

every single one of my daughters swim

meets that was gangster yeah I just made

I heard that sick a lot of money and I'm

like but I I watch I've been watching my

daughter's life on like a phone yeah

these two dudes was crying again like

she's never gonna be six again you know

and I miss like tons of her life yeah I

make this money but I'm like I've

watched my kids life through a [ __ ]

face time yeah and I'm the only dad that

has been in her swimming tour

killed me

how do you do it because

I get drunk every day

why do I see the clips I cried on this

one too I just sit home and cry over

here

they be powerful [ __ ] yeah

like that should be powerful and again

as a man it's just sometimes you you

kind of gotta uh

you kind of gotta blank it out like

we've been taught just that too like

[ __ ] that bother you we just been kind

of taught to kind of uh what they call

it suppress it yeah right you you got to

do that you got to keep to maintain your

level of sanity my [ __ ] you got to do

that for sure that's right you know what

I'm saying like you like you just have

to you find a way to do it our

neighborhoods teach us how to do it

unfortunately

so who the [ __ ] are you gonna call

that's it

it's just everybody has a perspective

I told y'all well maybe I didn't tell

y'all one of them times not too not too

long ago my dad called and I forgot what

he's talking about but he was like Hey

it might have been his birthday like oh

Pop I love you where's my clean date

something and he's like yeah all that's

cool but how you feel about my me being

a dad and how I feel about the dad I was

two different things that none you and

your mother could ever say about it like

that's my [ __ ] that I go I think about

like but that's great yo if you was

everything you needed to be listen shut

up you can't shut up affect how he felt

yeah yeah there's nothing you can say

that's gonna change my perspective on

this

do I get everybody just has my

perspective yeah

moving on yeah and these play

outstanding no no no you you want to

give to another meeting

all right y'all are Macho machines

stay here so so again I don't know 50

Cent imagine how he might really feel

the streets have hardened him to a place

where

you feel me said like yo people are

expendable like I could cut off people

because I could do that I could cut a

[ __ ] off and never speak to them

again in my life and I'm not gonna be

it's a gift and a curse for me right

like I'm never gonna talk to you again

which I imagine to be times like a

billion when someone is well when

Killers have tried to kill you

like so now one one sign of someone not

being for me or in my corner they gotta

go yeah no matter staying on that side

now hey and you're forever there in the

heat

be able to walk away 30 second love and

30 seconds or less yeah

yeah that was such a cold line when he

said it but his [ __ ] out here that's

really moving like that yeah that's not

a healthy way to live life you picked

over there all right cool stay over

there stay over there you can't come

back okay never come back over here ever

again and it's exacerbated in my opinion

by the internet because people post that

[ __ ] all the time you know what I mean

and make it sound cool they do you know

what I mean that ain't cool that's not a

healthy way to live life in my opinion

okay also on the child front uh this is

breaking I'll throw this in there we

don't need to take Ben Gordon arrested

at the airport for allegedly striking

his 10 year old son

yikes that just came through

don't know any more details on it

basketball player I had a jump shot yeah

yeah

being gold nice

Ben Gordon was good

um where do you guys stand on you could

go to jail for today I mean yeah it

depends that's kind of what I was

talking about when when Wall Street

Trapper was hit we would say how before

like Miss Jackson whoop your ass to him

I was like yo you can't beat your kids

today

forget the neighbor you lying I'm dead

serious dog

you know how I used to be in the

supermarket yo don't touch nothing she

just give you the look remember that and

and I know in the closed mouth talk

listen

in an effort to not be an old caveman

ass [ __ ] I know that the kids are right

about certain [ __ ] like they probably

right like your parents shouldn't be the

kid I'm not putting a thought in that

what I'm saying is

there's no world where I want to see how

I would have turned out without getting

beat

now therapists have told me that that is

totally wrong and that I am I shouldn't

think like that at all and

I just know how what punishment taught

me consequences at an early age I'm not

saying for y'all get it twisted I'm not

saying oh go oh yeah we are definitely

sending the wrong message out today yeah

I'm not saying that I'm not saying

therapy says you're supposed to learn to

talk to your kid or communicate with

your kid or find a different way

positive reinforcement as opposed to yes

because the therapist says that you

punishing your kid by hitting them

it's just causing trauma because then

they live their life thinking that

that's okay

to uh problem solve that way to hit

their kids she broke it all down I was

like oh I hear you but I hear I get my

mama needed to grab that belt yeah same

I wasn't near Wildland I'm gonna say

this I'll call my mom right now she she

loves to tell the story she said you

know me and my brother we got it

differently she was like you

it only took one or two good times for

you you me

and then him my mom had an answer it was

just

it was like he just kept pushing it was

to us he's still me I'm like I don't

like this [ __ ] oh I don't like that [ __ ]

oh that's what you're doing I don't like

that never mind I ain't gonna do that no

more the child also had a restraining

order against him

against him yeah against his dad yeah

well that's why he went to jail

that's why

I have a lot of questions you can't hit

me if I got a restraining order against

you no how old's the kid do we know how

to be around me yeah he's ten he's ten I

know but people always bring restraint

in order to be around each other but you

can't hit me while he's wanting the fact

you shouldn't me

how did it to you

yo this is this is what I will say

come on cause I'm getting something

happy or something no no no my little

cousin right my little cousin um he was

locked up for a long time Mr jail as a

kid

he came home and he was like yo one

thing I'll say that I learned in jail

he said yo the biggest motivator in the

world is fear and violence

that's what he said as a in jail taught

him that so when you start talking about

kids acting right the kids that be

scared of their parents my [ __ ]

they scared of their parents they won't

do certain [ __ ] in the world just out of

fear I'm not saying that that fear has

to be a physical fear you know what I'm

saying like but punishment or grounding

or however you achieve that level of

fear or respect in your kids I think

it's I think it's warranted and I think

it's needed today

and the therapist says that that

[ __ ] comes from slavery what beaten

not even necessarily you know the uh

yeah uh beating when somebody is out of

line somebody

to instill like if my single mother in

that house didn't beat me and my brother

we would have overtook the house from

her

and that ain't just your household

that's not just sorry Mom that's a lot

of households yeah that's true that have

been our house that's a lot of

households bro

oh no dog no I was bad yo bro before the

street light come on all that [ __ ] that

worked on y'all no no the street light

came on the tomorrow morning

just came on at 5 30 man I'm never going

home it was [ __ ] me

never doing it

um where do you gentlemen stand on

uh

I'm doing this part once a week so I'm

telling you because you do this [ __ ]

twice a week you'll be able to talk

about somebody that you know

I don't want to talk about nobody I know

I don't

sometimes you [ __ ] be newsworthy

Fab post his daughter that he has with

Emily

shout out to both Fab and Emily shout

out to both of them both dear friends

uh he posts his daughter that he has

with Emily and a beautiful caption hey I

named you Journey because of the journey

and it was just a beautifully written

caption and as a dad I felt it

uh and then Emily's daughter

makes a post

to basically say all of this is internet

front and you ain't you ain't been there

you ain't been there you're not taking

care of your daughter you're not doing

what you're supposed to do but you want

to come around and take an Instagram

picture to let people think blah blah

blah blah stop the cap stop running that

that wasn't her uh

word verbatim but that was the message

let me read it no okay

do something

read it for for context so people can

have an understanding everybody's not as

familiar I'll start with uh with his

caption I named you Journey because

that's really what it's been

might not know when you're going through

it but you'll get it at the end like

this man read hers

all right I rehearse we all need to read

them beautiful she starts with three

laughing emojis crying laughing and says

this post is hilarious

might not know when you're going through

it but you'll get it at the end it's

translation for I haven't taken care of

my daughter in almost a year and don't

even ask about her well-being because I

don't care and I'm bitter and I'm only a

father to my two beautiful sons who I

can manipulate stop playing with the

internet

damn

I'm gonna hit a gunshot

no no gunshot my [ __ ] am I gunshot

Worthy

you're right

um where do y'all stand on this

come on don't get quiet people are

listening

um gather your thoughts

I know we're outside I I think you

should first me shoot first all right

totally against this from her

on many different fronts

uh

the first one let's assume that what

she's saying is true

I've unfortunately been there a few

times

where the relationship is strenuous with

uh with the mom uh having seen your

child the way you would like to for

whatever circumstance is happening and

sometimes for the parent well for the

dad in that instance

it's pictures man

it's pictures of your son your daughter

when I wasn't seeing Trey I didn't have

a Facebook but anytime I was searching

Facebook for pictures of him because

just seeing my kid if that's the only

time I get to see you then it's special

to me it's a different level oh you and

I'm this if this is how if this is one

of the only ways I can keep up with you

oh you in the studio oh you yeah I'm not

there but what you think that I don't

want to be there well I don't want to be

kept up with what's going on with you

like

so I feel him on that uh

there were days where

maybe I weren't the greatest when we

were going through how do we split

but on Father's Day

I got to be there and you [ __ ] better

believe I took a picture and I posted it

that wasn't to say hey I'm being the

best dad in the world in our

relationship is as great as it could be

that was for me as a dad so I could go

back to and look at and get all warm and

tingly inside whenever I'm yearning for

my my child

now

I'm only speaking from men that want to

be in their kids life

let me make myself clear

there are many versions of this story

and as I just finished saying some

[ __ ] don't want to be some [ __ ] well

I can do without the picture I don't

need to be there I don't need to see how

you're doing I'm not speaking for them

so I understand it on that part

secondly

I do believe that as a child there are

things that you you aren't privy to

and there are things that are none of

your business especially some of which

that went on between me and your mother

I stand in that

I would I I was hoping that my oldest

son while he was growing up

wasn't being told from his mother all of

our [ __ ]

that was a lot of [ __ ] give it to me

one how old is she um

Emily's daughter now she's 20 something

she's in the 20. she's 20. she's a

mother of her own she got two kids she

has two kids

I think she that part right there has

her looking at things a little different

and she's been there like I don't think

her mom needed to tell her nothing

she might have been there in the house

and seen X Y and Z happening we don't

know who knows what when it comes to

them

it's it kind of looks a little clear

that she's fed up with something that's

a fact

but also when it comes to kids or

children or young adults

there needs to be more communication to

see why you feel the way you feel and

sometimes it's never just as blunt as

what a young adult says or what a young

kid says because to that I match you

with

that was my house that you grew up in

that that's my I I held that house down

whatever perspective you got in that

house

that was me your whole upbring to that

you say what

that's not to say that you shouldn't

have a perspective

I was getting ready to say she still

could oh again I don't even of course

talk about Fab and him yeah I don't

either we could kind of take this I'm

trying to broaden this yeah yeah we can

take this to a different different place

um

prayers to them like sincerely and

genuinely prayers to them and the 50 and

his son and anybody going through

the these types of issues the older kid

or the kid that has been there

can definitely fill away depending upon

what they've seen fact so if you've seen

certain [ __ ] and now that you're older

you recognize certain [ __ ] you know what

I'm saying like so let's just say uh uh

the dad was an alcoholic

right and he used to beat his kids

or or or or the dad or the mom was on

drugs and used to lead the kids in

[ __ ] up situations and circumstances

and now you get on social media and you

want to act like you're the Cosby's or

you're The Partridge Family some of

these kids especially in this generation

will be like [ __ ] that's cap

[ __ ] out of here you know what I'm

saying you ain't mom of the year you

ain't daddy yet stop getting on here

fronting for the public

and I think that they are entitled to

feel that way because you can't tell

somebody how they should feel you know

what I'm saying like now could it be

handled with a different level of

tact sure but when people are emotional

they really don't be attacked yeah you

know what I'm saying so and today you

know yeah everything is online so

um I just think that uh

again this is not even directed toward

them like if your mother was turning

tricks with you in the bedroom well you

know what I'm saying people grew up in

situations where their mother would let

[ __ ] touch them you know what I'm

saying like you can't sit now on [ __ ]

social media and start talking about

how you love me like I don't want to

hear that [ __ ] my [ __ ]

so I just think that you know people are

entitled to to their stances or their

opinions

um and and and I think the information

is key for a third party to really be

able to have a fair assessment because

the in the inside the house [ __ ] is

important that [ __ ] is important some

mothers really be on some [ __ ] and

some mothers really don't so I think

that is a real real real big piece in in

those circumstances I think the the role

that the mother plays on

um

resistance because some others be

resistant to the dude being a a father

or the the father in which they would

like to be some mothers be like yo rock

out imma get them dressed he'll be

dressed by nine o'clock father don't

ever pick him up show up yeah don't show

up the kids sitting there waiting you

know what I'm saying y'all I'ma send you

this I'm gonna send you that father

don't never send it you know what I'm

saying it's a bunch of that that takes

place and so now some kids see that when

they start to get older they see that

like yo dog I remember being dressed

with my baseball mid on and you ain't

show up

now my mother got to go to the park with

me and play catch because to stop me

from crying you get what I'm saying so

now when you get online and you got a

picture now saying how we play you know

what I'm saying [ __ ] get the [ __ ] out

of here like I don't want to hear that

you know what I'm saying so I just think

I wasn't talking to you

I know but but so I wasn't talking to

you no you're right but that might have

been with the other kids too

you get what I'm saying like I just

think that the the internal [ __ ] is is

is needs to be known before we can

really address that

and some people on the inside got better

information I don't think none of it

should be known I agree with that in the

public I

agree none of this has to be put online

like that but every time we talk like

that I remember Lotto sitting here

saying yeah that we just don't get it

yeah this is the internet

that's how they communicate exactly

that's how they express themselves so I

always catch myself because we're seeing

that thing 50 Sun internet old head

[ __ ] no daughter internet oh yeah

[ __ ] do it nowadays [ __ ] that's 45

real [ __ ] quote on quote straight

[ __ ] quote unquote will take to the