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when I come in hey yo

hey yo I'm sorry

yeah William Gordon this is like a

monologue where I let the audience hear

my voice a little bit

yeah

yeah you don't know what time it is

shout out to the day ones y'all always

knew my body huh y'all always knew my

body shout out to the newcomers better

late than never come on man what's going

on love when I'm well rested eight good

got love doing all week

actually with my phone at man now you

want to make me mad now we stole my

inspiration now your baby man just that

fast y'all made me mad how we make it

mad though not y'all but dumb out there

like they don't know how important it is

for a man to be loved on so he could be

his best best self

like God damn now I gotta find a

misogynistic clip that I love

and I [ __ ] pissed me off now now man

all right smell welcome back yeah thanks

I missed you guys and we missed you

Catholic school teacher is that what I

look like do I look like a Catholic

school teacher that was not the vibe I

was going for that's that I don't see

that maybe task master

okay that's a Taskmaster

oh you look you look nice

oh I didn't know I didn't know that was

a kinky thing yeah you went to the class

my bad my bad so my bad sometimes you

just gotta you know the rest go by I

think when he wear black shirts he goes

somewhere else

he get his [ __ ] off there yeah

welcome back Mel thank you I appreciate

that what are you about to play for us

well the number one thing that brothers

are telling me in the counseling office

that they want in their relationship is

r-e-s-p-e-c-t let me tell you today what

respect looks like to your man

is admiration do you admire him as a man

number two appreciation do you

appreciate him for who he is and for

what he does number three surrendering

and submitting to his leadership that

you allow him to leave number four

respect says I will pay you attention as

my name I will give you an undivided

attention

of respect is I will make myself

available for you number six I will keep

myself attractive for you number seven I

will attend to your needs and number

eight I will articulate your love

language do yourself a favor and be sure

that you are giving him the respect that

he needs and deserves so that you can

get the love that you want

microphone check one two what is this

[Laughter]

um

[Applause]

microphone check y'all know what time it

is in here oh thank you very much I

appreciate you flip uh welcome to

episode what episode is this uh six ten

come on man we demothy woman episode 610

of the Joe Budden podcast I am Joe

Budden I'm here with this amazing

Ensemble that we have it's a family huh

family Vibes the amazing

beautiful

intellectual sensual self

Melissa Ford is here and welcome back

welcome back

welcome back Mel flip is here Library is

here issues here uh ice is here Parks is

here Poes here Corey is here Erickson is

here and I think Ian and keeber here

somewhere running around everybody

looking good smelling good huh

good great man that's nice out [ __ ] yeah

it feels good outside a little 60

degrees spring is Monday is spring

officially I'm gonna hold y'all that

[ __ ] creeping up on me man the old age

that you be talking about

there

sitting here

your back start hurting can't move from

sitting from sitting too long sitting is

the new smoking though sitting is the

new smoking

y'all gotta get y'all I keep telling

y'all yeah I got you got to come to a

pilates class yeah yeah

so I still smoke

that's some [ __ ]

every time

[Laughter]

sitting is the new smoking sitting is

the new smoking yes our lifestyles have

become so sedentary that doctors have

said that the amount of time that we

spend sitting and scrolling on our

phones and just like [ __ ] off is

killing us I feel it bro I couldn't move

I gotta [ __ ] more

that is a form of exercise

back like literally try to pick my

daughter up because I'm like yo you got

to walk like sorry you gotta walk can't

do it you gotta start working out bro

she like run daddy no

no no walk Daddy walk

yeah she's gonna be having kids late in

life this year

yeah you should jump on your ass you're

definitely gonna have to get like a

whole routine going like for me I have a

whole like list of you know my

therapists I've got my acupuncturist who

does cupping on me I get physical

therapy I get massage I get

all the things

it feels good when you can't relate to a

bunch of oldies

you ain't give related to that no not

even a little bit

I feel great as well

my bed is a little low to the floor so

every time I get up I do feel my left

knee I can't do some Iron Man type [ __ ]

my left knee be doing some recalibrating

you know they said the soft beds and

those Tempur-Pedic beds aren't good for

you yeah they say you got to lay on a

hard bed or the floor fam them low beds

all this is low down low profile is not

for it's not for over 40. no it's not

not even a little bit you can't even get

good hump on them a little bit it should

be trash I used the floor get the

leverage on I don't try to expend too

much energy

as long as I got a little handle on the

wall or something somewhere close

to airport

[Music]

all right

oh my God that was funny all right

listen a lot to get to a lot is

hilarious some of it is not not so

hilarious where would everyone like to

start this is a music show or a pseudo

show they said theoretically T-Pain's

new music yeah T-Pain I do want to talk

about T-Pain's new music T-Pain I didn't

know that that this topic would

just make I make for an interesting

debate but this cast and it's nice it's

the only thing that came out this week

really

cheap

so let's start with T-Pain T-Pain

dropped the project on top of the covers

the name of it it's called on top of the

covers yes on top of the car and they're

all it's all covered

you know points for creativity because

that is clever honestly I saw I saw the

project called on top of the covers and

the album cover yeah and I didn't see

the track list I was like oh he getting

into his bag on here I thought it was he

was about to let you know give you some

of that he's got the r b pose in his

mouth he got the I said oh okay he's

getting ready to it's about to be one of

those type of albums so I can download

this [ __ ] first song that come on is the

Change Is Gonna Come and you're right

okay wait a minute so now I'm looking I

said oh wait these are all covers

because it's classic records

loved it

okay I'm I love it and I love it coming

off of the [ __ ] logic did

um that's really why I love it I was

like oh I see what you did today you saw

him go [ __ ] up some [ __ ] and said I'm

gonna show you how to do some covers the

right way I got you you think you did

them shits like last week yesterday

it wouldn't surprise me I can go do this

right now and it should sound some of

them are going on tour with logic

let me just give you that little tidbit

that changes everything

yeah while you're over there horseback

riding listening to this [ __ ] now it's

all a force

now it's all a farce I [ __ ] it up for

me come on let's talk about it let's

talk about no you was just in the rain

I still love the music um T-Pain is that

what you over there doing making logic

[ __ ] embarrass himself like that and

this is not so I'm not talking about

Logic the tracks that he did the Change

Is Gonna Come Don't Stop Believing when

I saw that I said wait I know it's not

that though Journey yeah yeah I know

it's not that it was

boom boom is what you say to this huh

[Laughter]

give them a little harmonizer

I could unplug everyone's equipment

[Music]

I just want you all to know if this

wasn't my equipment

I would kick all this [ __ ] to the ground

right now if I didn't need my ears I

would do some saw three [ __ ] and just

chop my ear off right now what I'm not

mad at this

you

oh my god

[Music]

let's go

[Music]

[Laughter]

[Music]

that song is just so iconic and it's

such a fun loving song though you can't

help but like start beating your videos

it happened Don't Stop Believing nothing

gonna change oh no no but Journey also

said stop using our [ __ ] music

[ __ ]

um

yourself

huh why you don't like it I had no point

did I say I don't like this song you

said the bars in Hell the bar is clearly

you talking about from Journey to T-Pain

bottom to bottom to bottom of hell

the songs that are amazing cover songs

that sound good when anybody chooses

them in any karaoke bar all over the

country are going to sound good you can

still [ __ ] themselves up though you

could and your your T-Pain

I think you can do you can pull Journey

off I'm not mad at Journey I'm not mad

at Sam Smith Stay With Me I think that's

another song that will be covered

throughout the next 50 years but what

about changing poor pigs is is that's

the one the original I know that's the

one that got me too no that's one missed

that was missing's the original not to

me I know then that's why I'm saying the

bar is in Hell War Pigs is not a song

that's going to be in the Jukebox at the

diner or in the karaoke spot that was

real musicians doing some other [ __ ] to

those instruments

you can't just

Sonic Sonic size if that's even a word

it's not that out and that's what that

was that he did so I'm gonna play this

and then you can play what he did of

course I'm not putting that other

chicken

some of these songs on there let me stop

this

and that's where I think the Miss was I

don't like the songs that he chose to uh

cover I also think too much of T-Pain so

if you had time to get in the studio and

you was going to cover some [ __ ] covered

cover some [ __ ] like I was excited when

I saw the title and the cover but to

just go and give me karaoke's or wow wow

volume volume nine it's like it's a

misuse of T-Pain's talent for me I love

covers me too I like it when they've

done right and I feel like he picked I

feel like he did these records right

we'll play War Pigs that's different a

thousand percent difference I'm not

saying instrumental this is the same

they're lacking but yeah you could tell

that he did his uh production either I

don't know if it was all digital

that's exactly what it sounds like it

sounds like It's All Digital

it's just it sounds very artificial yeah

that's what it gives it gives very

artificial I think it was really easy

hitting them drums in the Years

T-Pain is a friend of the show I love

and support him and all he does so

please please go purchase this project

it isn't your phone right this second or

at least purchase the ones you like off

of it yeah because that war Pig should

have never seen I'm not mad if T-Pain

were to do a bunch of covers in the

studio I'm mad that he released a bunch

of coverage from the studio off the back

of logic it'll get you oh my God

let me ask real quick like what are some

of the better covers like [ __ ] forget

them that you've heard

um

oh I got one two Luther Vandross

all over The Watchtower

Prince I can't make you love me he did a

bunch of [ __ ] O'Connor uh uh

you know what cover I liked um ribbons

in the sky when um

I love when they did that I like I like

Vanessa Williams work to do too I

thought that was a funky flip of

The Isley Brothers work to do you know

what one of the worst covers I've heard

is and I understand why like you know

black artists want to like sing like um

songs that are like hard rock songs but

sometimes kind of like in this T-Pain

situation you don't do it and Rolling

Stones has a song called painted black

and classic you know who covered it who

Sierra

listen I I love Sierra I like I said you

can criticize the people that you admire

you have to yo can we put that line in

the podcast Hall of Fame up in the sky I

love such and such but but

yeah

it has to be in the podcast Hall of Fame

definitely

so you don't

you don't know

I'm all good I'm all set that's how I

felt when I saw the weekend did uh Dirty

Diana

I didn't want to hear that it didn't

hurt it me too but it was fun then I

heard it it was fire though yeah he went

absolutely agree he went crazy he did

but when you see it it's like why are

you touching that record you can't do

that Justice oh my bad you could my

fault no no no he smoked it I got a

thing with people doing the classics man

I do

um

if you're gonna do it right I'm okay

with that like I hate to go back to it

but to hear the way logic covered family

was a good day right now how do you feel

about people flipping classic hip-hop

it's not exactly a cover but taking

samples like dead presidents has been

done 60 million times and they're

sampling obviously the original record

but they're sampling Dead Presidents how

do you feel about that Joe compared to

people doing covers

you got to just do it right yeah that's

true like Dead Presidents is going to be

dope no matter how you do it really yeah

but there's a way to do it bad yeah and

you don't want to be that guy yeah

like listen when the producers when the

producer came in and the beat was 100

fire all 300 people in the studio was

nod in the head going crazy and the hook

might have been on it or somebody was in

there doing a Cadence of a hook and all

300 people was going crazy all the

pressure in the world is on the rapper

now that's

you can't be the one

[ __ ] the [ __ ] it up drop the ball and

that's how I feel got you all right

all right what else is going on actually

while we're on music before we leave

music

uh

I'd like to take the time to really

acknowledge how much for how for how

much further ahead

r b guys are just in the rap guys I want

to [ __ ] on the rappers for a little bit

number one I don't know what the hell

you guys are doing out there and I want

to beg for an extended version of this

record

I do okay

cloth

see this is what I mean man

like the r b guys when y'all

I like r b records that's either great

to play if you gotta eat [ __ ] for 45

minutes straight

or

r b record where the guy is telling the

girl about herself like all of that

toxic [ __ ] that y'all be talking

about it's just not but then when the

OG's come do it it just sounds different

and all that [ __ ] y'all be hyping up

oh y'all want to beat me down with that

Brent fire is [ __ ] sorry it's not

it's not going in my Serato my ears know

what r b is no disrespect to him of

course

fire

fire that is y'all could just let that

play no matter what you're doing what

you're doing a little jump rooster he

will not die damn Little John

Garrett yeah

he gets that bad wait a second Little

John

bye I see why you want to see him

perform Man he's him yeah oh yeah no

question I watched some clips from his

Vegas joints no he's him undoubtedly

okay

singing this is the song that um Lori

Harvey's in the video for right

uh I haven't seen the video I'm not I'm

unsure I don't know okay and I don't

really follow Lori Harvey around like a

creep I don't do that yeah you're like

one of you guys are the only ones okay

got it

got it got it how old is loyal Harvey

she's like what

uh

yeah you think that would be strange

you would look at us differently yes you

would if you guys were like enamored

with Lori Harvey yes yes

40. yeah

exactly so don't try to set us up with a

mouse trap we try to trick Us Melissa I

mean like how many [ __ ] were

waiting

because I'm Canadian because I'm

Canadian but how many dudes were waiting

for bad Barbie to like be legal yeah

what

is bad Barbie what

um

all right okay fine so you guys don't

even pay any attention to Lori Harvey

okay cool

I call [ __ ] but okay cool no problem

[ __ ] how do you go abortional yeah

you know it's so funny when men be

trying to tell you who they are

um

shut down why you go [ __ ] on that

it's such a frivolous thing to even lie

about

a lot of guys do not want to seem to

admit that they really really really

appreciate Lori Harvey all they seem to

do is complain about her and complain

about how she lacks self-respect because

she found she's a beautiful girl we're

just not old we're not in here though

why because we'll tell who we on and it

might not be of popular opinion in here

okay so who y'all on my girl

look at that I'm in my honeymoon

I recognize that Lori Arby is a uh for

this generation uh sex figure like a sex

icon her name is in rap songs multiple

famous people lusting and chase after

she's quiet Her Image is squeaky clean

her mom is who she is before we get to

Dad like I understand the

the uh the appeal and the Allure yeah

I'd be 43 years old yeah but how she was

she was rumored she was rumored to date

Diddy and how old is he she's how old is

Future like aren't they like isn't he

like in the 80s different too man Dayton

is is you had to lust after somebody

before you could date them no I don't

know if they were dating who

who I just said yes I mean yeah they

were good job dating man who told you

that

um everywhere

owe me an apology personally me okay he

went and made that state I'm still not

over that he wouldn't made that

statement that estg is the new Jeezy

and I let it slide

and estg has dropped this might be the

third project since that statement has

come out

you got to walk that back

it's me he keeps dropping me and yes

yeah yeah I know I'm I'm disappointed

I'm I don't even know no more I don't

know what he do I don't know I have no

clue anymore

I saw the project it's called mad the

first record was I hope you die in

surgery

I was like oh yeah yeah now I hope you

die in surgery yeah I was like oh yeah

it wasn't even that

this was a misleading title it wasn't

none of that what was it about not that

not what you would think coming from him

hearing that title like a girl song damn

near we got him

and I'm just like dogs what is going on

I don't know what they trying to read is

he him is he that guy like he puts out a

lot of music do you think that could be

part of it like yeah no he don't you

don't know

he's dropped several like three projects

since you started what hit has he had

guys I can tell you I can catch me up he

dropped a lot he drops a lot not

compared to a lot of these other news

how many albums he had two that was a

joint project and then 21.

uh EP since I've been on this podcast

he's put about four or five projects on

it yeah but you're talking about epeps

still it's a lot of music I I've seen I

support you though whatever that [ __ ] is

uh today it's not it

I'm sorry and it hurts because you know

how long you know that was my I have to

be the one to say it I'm extending Grace

because he's too he has to catch one now

so I'm extending Grace this is normally

where fans abandon their favorite

artists that got you organically

this period

estg is surrounded by [ __ ] with hits

okay

he cannot keep being the guy I don't

know his business that don't have one

well don't have to because I think you

gotta look back as a hit but look you

said

um

abandon the fans that that came with you

organically it sounds like you're

abandoning the sound that brought them

fans there organically yeah you're

trying to guess one he's he's doing

something he's I get it

pushing them to do that I get it but you

know this is not you know the difference

in what he charged for a show and what

bag charged for a show

it's different or what a little baby

charged for it yeah he hanging with like

he's seeing what's going on yeah

this this is

I hope they figure it out that's all I

can say and the sad part as an artist is

you can't figure that out without

releasing music

that's where the conundrum lies because

your brain could be telling you this

[ __ ] is hot or some [ __ ] is whack and

you put it out and that should get the

rolling or it's not as fly as you

thought yeah that's true how many

artists be like yo I ain't even like

that [ __ ] I ain't want to put it out the

label forced me to put it out and then I

beat a monster [ __ ] that they make all

the money off of yeah

and then you know that when somebody's

trying to catch one that they probably

won't catch one then they're gonna have

to buy one and then you could tell that

they bought one

the beat is bought the features are

bought the the perk the best pen in the

game wrote The Hook and the label's

putting all the money behind it because

you couldn't go get one now we had to

spend on it

it gets tricky but this is my beef like

with calling people the the that of this

generation he shouldn't have said that

that's my beef like it's a lot of

pressure yeah because now you you put

that out there now you have we just said

that about puffinberg

don't send you the puff of this

generation and I'm still here I agree

with that but at least

he did a lot to then make that statement

though

that was my whole beef when baby first

made the statement about EST just said

what has he done that makes him the gz

of this generation were y'all there for

the Jeezy word

there's no way you could be you could

have been there for the Jesus you were

to say anybody today is the Jeezy of

this generation the Jeezy run is cold

for me uh you couldn't have been you you

must have missed like Get Rich or Die

Tryin Jr

yeah so that was my you know that's my

favorite rapper so I did take that a

little personal like yo don't call

nobody the Jeezy of this generation of

one project

don't do it yeah it must have been a

great run I had one of them snowman

shirts with [ __ ] crystals on the snow

yeah I thought I was like I still got

snowman shirts get rid of yourself go to

the box

what'd you say you lose us about the

Snowman shirt yes free yeah I think I

got mine for free too I got my [ __ ] I

think Lisa Brunton that's how I knew

another artist was getting more support

than me

you know the gz had a Joe Button t-shirt

no

there was a I was the young guy so there

was a wave of older

legendary more accomplished acts to say

who the [ __ ] is this guy like get the

[ __ ] out of here and then after me like

when they started bringing in like the

Rosses and and all of them [ __ ]

yeah I was like what the [ __ ] are these

[ __ ]

[ __ ] on every radio station in America

you're like oh that's what that is

funny huh Ross came in at hustling did

he come in hustling yeah yeah yeah yeah

but I met him before hustling at one of

them Club this is when the clubs was on

27th Street was open and I ran over

there to meet somebody and they was

running rust around because you had to

run the artist around New York to kind

of get them acclimated he said Joan come

once you meet somebody this is being

give a [ __ ] about me he just looked up

shook his hand that was the end of that

but nothing was shaking

and then hustling came out

and then I was like I see all right

that's the dude I met he caught one by

me everybody can catch one that's what

Jay-Z told me you know anybody can catch

one what you're gonna do after that so I

started applying it all right what you

gonna do after that then Jay-Z was on

the remix then I was like okay

yeah and then he put another one

[Applause]

but that's what I mean like I'm gonna

naturally hate on anybody first you have

to work me out of the hate work me out

to hate anybody this is a game full of

tricks and mass and Wizardry but if you

but if you could catch three in a row a

lot of that is you now yeah yeah that's

true a lot of that is you and then he

kept going yeah he kept going kept going

for the next 12 years

to do yeah I just wow listen man put

that [ __ ] out yo he's he was a

corrections officer and all of that now

anybody else I mean we know CEOs how

they get business but just seeing the

picture saying that that'll knock you

down in Hip Hop

and said all right watch this classic

there's a difference I won't be a CO2

[ __ ] it you got it

fifth was another one something to do

some dudes it was you you got off the

hate bandwagon early

very quickly

immediate yeah

like the how to rob [ __ ] I was like okay

that's cool okay you said everybody's

name got it oh

yeah it seemed like the next day in the

club came it was like oh yeah he's here

yeah yeah it was crazy it's nothing

Wanksta is the song like if I'm talking

to somebody that don't know anything

about the music business

wangster is my example song of seeing

the difference that a record label makes

because Wanksta was a New York smash

New York smash Queen smash smash every

car every car wash every block the mall

Coliseum the Ave everywhere everywhere

but when that [ __ ] when the words start

getting around Queens you know I think

they're gonna put that [ __ ] on the email

soundtrack

or whatever the rumor was yeah I think

they about to pick that as like a single

that [ __ ] started happening in Cleveland

it started Landing in Houston

and I was like what the [ __ ]

that's just skyrocketed yeah and then in

the Club come on

the club dropped it was on so good night

Joe tell the story all the time he was

like yo it was rumors going yo he got

one

it's one coming

it's one coming everybody was kind of

shook about it and then [ __ ] knew what

time it was with that record before it

came out Webb was scared to death

everybody music was scared of death and

sure enough they hot they put that [ __ ]

on the radio we got problems

that's when you were still pulling over

on the side of the road if something was

yeah yeah man that [ __ ] he must have

brought that [ __ ] back no I remember

that when you have to pull over when the

[ __ ] was just that fire you can't even

go where you go you know

yeah I remember the first time I heard

that [ __ ] this chick was going crazy in

my car I was looking like she was crazy

like I never heard it she knew all the

words already I was like damn [ __ ]

everything that's hate nah nah that was

hate yeah

yo she went crazy and I'm looking at her

like

This Record is so big that it almost

feels like

I don't know what the word is

like how you did that like what made him

think it's a lot that's something it

almost feels like cliche right now right

right I mean like that's how far it went

dog the DJs wouldn't let this record get

past 10 seconds that's a fact I thought

it was genius or in the first 10 seconds

he beat every rapper that was out would

just go Dre and go go go go go

come out this nigga's doing sit-ups

upside down ripped up like cut up like

Domino's pie [ __ ] is you talking about

oh man all right come on we done with

music uh yeah all right we are done with

music what else we got Diplo keeps

getting his dicks up yeah he said that

Diplo got his dick sucked and he said

that that don't make him gay yes he said

he's not to clarify that he got his dick

sucked by a guy and that he says that

does not make him gay he said it doesn't

make him gay but he said that doesn't

not make him not gay

Steve's leaning more towards he's not

gay it does not make him good he just

read it he said it also does not make

him not not gay what do I mean but not

twice

let's hear Diplo

I don't know then we can hear from

somebody more intelligent than me and

then I'm gonna end it with just the most

ignorant thing that I shall never say

from a guy before you're sure that's

happened yeah and you you just don't

remember I mean you're not being you're

saying you're not committing to it but

you're saying you're sure it happened

for sure but you don't have a specific

memory of it like I don't know if it's

gay unless you like make eye contact

while there's the [ __ ] that's such a

straight guy I mean getting a [ __ ] is

not like that no I feel where he's

coming from there I don't know it said

you tell me

what we're about to talk about we were

talking about Bill Clinton

thank you

okay so apparently getting a [ __ ] a

man getting a [ __ ] from another man

is not gay as long as you don't make eye

contact is that the rule you guys

Stevie Wonder can begin

you crazy what I mean he said he said it

like it's like

you don't know him

I don't care I don't care he was the

biggest DJ on the planet Earth

we gotta stop straddling these lines

but that's why but that's why before I

totally ruled out what he was saying

because you want to always remain

teachable and open-minded like I tried

to put myself in the mind frame of can

you get your dick sucked and not be gay

well I don't know the answer to that but

if I'm Diplo

I could see how if he's DJing at the

Rave

that may be gonna survive him hey yo hey

Eric

grab me that punch it comes

it comes to him

he had to Rave just blurting out the

wild demands

zombie grab that cord and suck my

[ __ ] dick under the table

Diplo was going crazy at the function

that's an excuse that's that's an excuse

me what about when he can't find his man

Eric you see Jerry

no

[Laughter]

no get out of there for me I got a coach

um bugging at the function go Diplo

[ __ ] shout out to him no and shout out

to our gay listeners shout out to the

lgbtq plus Community out there

supporting out there well dipo not a

part of that yes the [ __ ] it is no he's

not he just said he knows you put the

title on them

a lot of little labels too don't miss

labels it's a long list and stop trying

to put yourself in people's shoes

[Laughter]

all right Diplo I'm done I'm done with

that topic man that was me going as

close to the edge as I will for the sake

of content

dick

today

we didn't cover that we didn't cover

that part

I wondered if you

think is a bit offended it caught me off

guard but you think

okay so little meech is apparently very

upset that the the internet is is making

the assumption that he wore a prosthetic

penis during that sex scene that just

happened on BMF

and um see that's what I needed for my

little pick hey

Jerry

hey go in the closet over there

apparently that right next to the laptop

man they said he had a phone deal he

said they yeah everybody

a bunch of [ __ ] is out there doing

that I'm sorry a bunch of [ __ ] is out

there wearing Prosthetics

no that's correct Dirk Diggler that's

yeah everybody said that in Boogie

Nights that Mark Wahlberg was wearing a

prosthetic penis this [ __ ] need hugs

why I'm one only fans them [ __ ] just

putting putting the dick on the wall and

[ __ ] it while I can't put it put it

on me and provide some more pleasure

with the extendo yeah

Jerry

Joe

look now you're trying to [ __ ] find a

front and flip anyway nobody wants it oh

come on what else is what else is

important uh let's see let's see let's

see you gonna cue it up oh why wouldn't

I not why would I not hey ish make your

way to the top to Center Stage take the

podium yo that was really on your ass

last time we had Adam over here they was

on all of us I made them apologize when

I spoke to him

apologize to me home boy we was wrong

the internet don't ever come back around

and say hey yo it was right I was

tripping tripping with that one oh man

so so long

T-Pain should have did this ah

yeah I gotta start it over bruh you

can't scratch I'm not trying to scratch

but he lost a bunch of shows so I got to

play it a bunch of times oh [ __ ]

[Laughter]

hey

oh it brings me so much joy and another

one down and another one down

when I get issues age

I will be more mature

honestly when I'm his age I'm gonna be

my best self so I got a five year Runway

to do yeah

I gotta be me

yo

Adam 22 has lost all of the important

people from his Network

I spoke to him yesterday boy does he

sound stressed I didn't tell him that

because I had an interview to do

but I'll try to give you a cliff note

version of what I've gathered

and when you do that I got a phone call

we can make to get the other side of

that

um

all right the cliff note version

Adam wanted to make some changes changes

to his Tuesday show

the guy on the Tuesday show is the

breakout star for the network he also

has a Wednesday show and he's got gang

with him who's

all on the network helping [ __ ] Adam

wants to take him off the Tuesday show

and he wants to take the Tuesday show

and just the network in general in a

different direction which is more

political

right-wing white boy

retired Nazi well that's the he

interviewed a Nazi which is the cause of

all the smoke oh [ __ ] on his Wednesday

show with no black people present he

interviewed a retired Nazis

Richard Spencer

uh he laughed at some slavery jokes it

was real uncouth and a real nasty look

yo the people at his Network said

something about it

uh

I'm all over the place with the story

but anyway Adam thought he could confide

in Lush one about what was going on Lush

one took all the content of their

conversation to the Discord and to the

gang the gang is angry at Adam the gang

all ups and leaves

and that's totally separate from their

pedophile stories that are running

around yeah it was some wow there's new

pedophile stories yeah oh [ __ ] all right

I can put that one together for you

really quickly if you want to hear it I

mean yes by all means

according to Adam

Adam meets

Adam meets a girl online

that is 16.

he didn't know she was 16 he thought

that she was older

this girl came referred from Friends

right he meets the girl at 19

while she's 19 he wants to make that

very clear that he meets the girl at 19

years old

think they lose contact for a little bit

a few years later they reconnect off of

Facebook algorithm

somehow they end up [ __ ] he stays at

her mom's house they [ __ ]

uh and then years go by and then she

accuses him of rape

so his rape allegation

is this same girl from the pedophile

story

I'm just giving you pop

how old was he

uh he was older 40 35 no no no no no no

no no no no 20s gotcha okay yeah he was

in his 20s he said when when she was 16

I don't care I don't care you dudes out

there that'd be grooming 15 and 16 year

olds so you can [ __ ] them later on I

think it's disgusting talk about it

hmm I always said I always said dudes

that like oh she 18 and now you could be

I think you just you just [ __ ] up

because the only thing with the only

difference between 18 and 17 is a day

it's a month you know it's a day yeah

you're right it's a day so I don't roll

with that right you [ __ ] is trash too

but anyway I tried to hold them

accountable for all the things that we

spoke to him about on this podcast which

is

milking the hip-hop culture drive for

every penny that you can and then making

a pivot and disassociating yourself

for you to have a whole staff of black

people working for you just to interview

the Nazi in a polite way like if you

interviewed the Nazi you should give

them the smoke yeah right yeah but if

you laughing at slavery jokes or if you

laughing at any negative thing that he's

saying about a culture that represents

um what you've made your fortune off of

that is disgusting my [ __ ] and that is

what I've been saying that these white

people have the privilege of just

discarding the Black Culture at their

Leisure once they up and once they rip

but are we going to blame the black

people that join him and participate in

his before no no no no no we're not

going to blame them no I'm not no

because at the time it didn't wasn't

that you don't know that that's that

that person is that yeah exactly he's

not presenting oh by the way as soon as

I get on I'm leaving all you [ __ ]

behind yeah they're not gonna say that

you don't know you know you don't know

you want to make whatever call you for

sure you guys are crazy

why

that's crazy it's a very nuanced story I

know it's tough to fire people

especially people that you have personal

relationships with I know that that part

is tough so did they quit or did he

fight oh okay he fired one of them

she fired Lush on air that's on YouTube

yeah you can see it

everybody else left

all right all right what's going on

what's going on bro this is uh my guy

I'm calling you live on the air

um for those listening we live we live

this is this is 80.

who was formerly of no jumper

yes sir so we were just discussing what

happened over there and um I said I

wanted to give you a call so you could

you know put your get give your side out

there

thank you

yeah I was listening I was listening to

Joe yesterday too he was cooking oh

thank you man I was on his ass he was

slow roasted man oh you went out no

I mean um

where should we start

it was a it was a lot of um

matter of fact I'm just gonna cut

straight to the chase

Adam Adam you know he has a real big

problem with accountability you know

what I'm saying I looked at him as a as

a friend outside of the business

I had his back and I feel like a lot of

the reason why I was hired in the first

place was you know he knew my street

connections and he kind of leaned on

that and it ended up turning into like a

a business relationship when he seen how

how many people in his audience took to

me and yeah yeah and as time went by

um as I was growing he pushed me to

start streaming he pushed me to start

doing different Endeavors and uh once I

once it started you know becoming

successful I felt like he kind of you

know started looking at me a little

different

and

yeah man then you know just the power

tripping started happening and you know

once you playing with the guy's

livelihood and [ __ ] like that like we

sitting there looking at like all right

look we got to make sure that we

straight just in case you know luckily

we started our own brands that were

thriving and you know certain deals was

coming our way and everything like that

because in a situation like this if um

we was dependent on everything man it's

like our livelihood would have been cut

off water would have been cut off just

after you know it's like you get a toy

you don't want to play with the toy no

more so I'm about to go do this over

here now and you know that's that's the

to break it down it's kind of like

basically what it was

hmm that's crazy

that's what I said though I said

basically he gets the opportunity to

just cut the culture off at his leisure

right and then he just said yo you get a

new toy you don't feel like playing with

the toy no more you put it down and go

get another toy hey D can we you got any

examples of this Power Trip in that that

you think was going on over there

yeah you know it was um

all right so for instance when the when

the house phone situation happened

um you know he was getting a lot of like

backlash for it and you know we was

telling him privately like hey you're

wrong for this and you know then we went

publicly on the show that we got and we

was telling them like hey no we don't

[ __ ] with that and I guess he was like

you know super stressed out about

everything and we you know we was on his

ass about it and he was just like hey

I'm thinking about cutting all the shows

off

we like what you mean cutting all the

shows off

he was like yeah I don't know like I

don't know about doing this no more you

know I feel like cutting this and we

like you're just gonna cut everything

off because the heat is on you but when

the heat is on one of us like it's all

cool it's all fair game right we like

you know [ __ ] like that have you spoke

to him since though

um I spoke to him yeah yeah I mean like

look I'm Gonna Keep It Real

just off the fact that you know what I'm

saying he put me in the game he showed

me a new way man I'm able to take care

of my family and do something

differently like I ain't got no bad

blood like you know look at that real

[ __ ] sentiment there's some other

people out there clearly are lacking

you know I wish I wish no bad on them

you feel me um if if he needs me I I'm

still I'm still here he can call me and

talk to me and stuff like that like I'm

cool it's just you know uh just it is

yeah

was was the um the interview with the

dude and all the stuff that surrounded

that like the straw that broke the

camel's back

oh Richard Spencer yeah

yeah that and that was kind of like the

timing of everything and the timing of

everything was just crazy to me so um I

mean the timing like what was the link

between that and and what channel a week

literally literally a week so

um I wasn't familiar with um at the time

I wasn't familiar with like Nick Fuentes

like that

um

and it was discussed that he was going

to come on the platform and everything

somebody suggested that hey I'll be on

I'll be in on the interview and I

thought like you know I'm saying I can

just

um talk and you know try to get the

issues out and stuff like that and I

didn't think I did a good job when it

came down to the interview because I

felt like kind of that was above what

the research that I didn't even do and

once that happened man I just felt like

I let my people down and I told myself I

was like you know what if if anybody

like that comes on the platform I'm

gonna do my due diligence and make sure

that I take out the time to get the

facts right and be able to like you know

properly debate them and um yeah once

you know Richard Spencer came over there

um

I think Adam tried to like pay van

Lathan to sit with him and Van was like

I ain't sitting with them and I know

people suggested other people to sit

with him and you know like he didn't

want to he didn't want me to sit in

there he didn't want other people to sit

in there on the platform and once I've

seen it you know

a lot of people was calling me van

included was like hey what's up with

this you got three white guys

you know you got two you got two white

guys talking to a supposed reformed

Neo-Nazi and

they ain't giving them no pushback

they ain't talking about the issues and

everything you know what I'm saying it's

like I feel like at that point I'm like

you know what that ain't cool just

because I'm on this platform I ain't

about to just you know tuck my tail if I

see some some type of [ __ ] wrong and I'm

like you know so I went on I went on my

show on Wednesdays that on his platform

and I said you know what I'm holding you

accountable Adam anybody that that um

don't like our people don't [ __ ] with us

in any type of way

hey do you feel me we you got a lot of

minorities that work here on [ __ ] like

that I'm not [ __ ] with that I'm

disappointed in this and I ain't telling

you how to run your platform but you

need to be more mindful

a week later

there's a I think you know for our

friendship you you know do the Tuesday

show no more I'm like all right

yeah that's that's

something so that so that's the lack of

accountability piece right there instead

of you hearing me out that I felt a

certain way about the people that you

just interviewed you'll just let me go

and say you don't want me to do the show

no more

it's always been like that

hey D y'all got a lot of support out

there

uh hold your hand I'm sure y'all will be

fine and and yeah man just keep killing

out here I got a call from whack 100

about a few y'all yesterday we'll kick

it off here

yeah we're gonna chop it up later still

you know what I mean yeah you know it

all right bro we out man we appreciate

that all right

shout out to freeze

I didn't want to let that run for so

long but that right there is the

importance of black owned media

it is that is the purpose of it where

dude could just jump out

just from puff tell your own stories

control your own narrative it's about us

team building but that's what it is like

that story needs to be told

that [ __ ] is crazy that is crazy and

then when we tell you that's a problem

it's all right well you don't need that

show no more dog so so look

is it a wolf that's been in sheep's

clothing the entire time

potentially you get what I'm saying like

is it a wolf that's been a sheep acting

like you down like a culture acting like

you [ __ ] with [ __ ] and all of that

other [ __ ] but these [ __ ] is how you

eat so you gotta act like that um

I can show you who I am and now that I'm

up up and I don't need you no more I can

really show you how I really feel

yeah that's that's disgusting a lot of

them do that we see it all the time no

yeah somebody else did that before him

so I don't really see that uh that's

just weird like I see the desire to sit

down with Nazis unless you're gonna

punch them in the face yeah I don't get

like where's the value in that kind of

content like I you know I can tell you

what it is

it's a monetary value yeah the people

that followed up because now you look

like you're an ally to them or you just

dip into a whole different Democrats and

if done properly you could have that

debate you could have the guy with the

reformed Neo-Nazi views versus the

whoever they're opposed are we

forgetting that they did this Phil

Donahue and people have done debates

like this with people it's a different

thing when you have I'm just saying both

sides have to be represented it's a

different thing when you have both

entities you could have somebody from

one demo and another person from another

demo a voice in their opinion that's

cool but if you sit there with a

different individual and you laughing at

the slavery and all that other [ __ ] then

the representation from the other side

is absent bringing the Nazi on your

shoulder to get his [ __ ] off it's

[ __ ] crazy that's just crazy

that's a new day and age [ __ ] but like

they've been doing that they've been

allowing people to come Express

themselves from the beginning not on the

black platform on TV what are you

talking about on television

when I do the research I seen these

things yeah Nazis and neo-nazis being

interviewed by some of our favorites you

know what I'm saying and giving a chance

I think they were letting them get their

[ __ ] off no no they weren't letting them

get their [ __ ] up I do agree with that

what you're saying you know I think that

you know but I've seen it before on one

of the platforms they had a riot I

forgot which one it was we was kids

though they had a riot so

yeah yeah

yeah yo enough of that Neo-Nazi crap

yeah and death to see both sides media

from one experiment to the other did

y'all see um Jay Electronica Suites

recently beautiful he was wild no I

don't I don't see anything Electronica

does well I'm gonna read you a couple of

them

and y'all owe me an apology out there

because I called that Jay-Z album

correctly y'all can say it now

the audience

yeah what you said tell them what you

said a bunch of mid

bunch of mid yeah you're gonna try to

mask the mid with some hold lyrics this

is mid

all right so

um those are the only whole verses I

don't know

no he went crazy on the system

I don't know him but he was going nuts

but you know every other one okay so he

set the story he just was going off on a

tangent just yeah he do that a lot

though get up and just start tweeting

okay yeah he just but it'd be like way

like out there yeah so he said something

he's interesting if you hate on me

that's anti-semitic word to my Semitic

grandmother

okay cool whatever you say

um he's Jewish P.S the Dominicans

control the banking system yeah

P.S the albinos control the military

industrial complex like brah he um he

did so you said a lot of Dominican [ __ ]

in there I don't know yeah yeah no he

was wild and then the Dominicans jumped

on his ass yeah okay I didn't know I had

this many this many Dominican followers

yeah like my fault oh yeah

somebody tell the Dominicans I said free

Palestine

oh I see what he was doing he was

remixing Jewish with Dominican

I don't know why because yeah you know

why now they make uh

that's crazy God you get to see how you

really feel

about putting this up over there okay

I'm gonna try that let's go no no you

don't try it no no I'm gonna try it with

another group okay no but not on Twitter

right [ __ ] you can say whatever you

want about [ __ ] don't care you can get

away with it you shoot a [ __ ] all day

long

it'll work

but then he just started going on asking

who believe in God and don't talk to me

if you don't believe in God like he was

just Jay like was bucket and he'd do

this every couple months and then he'll

delete all the tweets and this whole

time I'll be empty but I don't know I

don't know neither this is y'all man's

you know and I'm with you the album was

made I told we we have the Hope only

version of that album somebody text me

when he's making exhibitsy or anything

in that box yeah anything that's that's

like that somebody texts me I'm back on

the wagon until then

I'm cool don't bother me with your

electronic news

all right well let's leave Jay and go to

another rank hey

oh my God what do they think we're all

morons yeah yeah you think we are just

man they couldn't even get him and Jalen

Rose better chairs for that [ __ ]

they got y'all the [ __ ] cheers out

of Sam's Club yeah that was that was the

NBA PR special that was a mess Joe you

keep telling us we keep falling for

marketing it is clean up on all 10. I

can't speak on that right now yeah no I

can't speak on that right I can't speak

on that why I can't speak on that I

can't speak on that right now you might

be under investigation or I just can't

say God oh that's that's what it's been

for every every answer the reason why

they don't look they don't give a [ __ ]

because they know that we're gonna get

bored inside of like two or three news

Cycles that's it that's all it's gonna

take but now he's claiming like the gun

wasn't his the NBA the NBA standing

behind him of course they are we have no

evidence to prove that the gun was his

what you want in his name

at that moment what are y'all talking

about to go live did you I don't know

what were you thinking and feeling at

that moment when you decided to go live

did you realize that you was going live

did you think that you were just

recording what was your state of mind at

that point watch this I pretty much just

trying to be free

because no uh use that as an escape

which I shouldn't have he got to escape

from 400 million that's the reason I

made many you know bad decisions you

know in my past

um

which doesn't know pretty much describes

me does and describes Jai as a person

you know I'm a totally different person

you know than what's been shown you know

in the media in the media you know

that's my job to take that time away to

you know become a better job so a better

job you really can you know see who John

really is and you know what he's about

um

as a pro some people don't realize that

it's it's a lot on our plate

um you for me being not 23. I'm not even

I was about to say I like it's killing

brain cells right now listening to that

[ __ ] [ __ ] he's the victim yeah

with a foreign

come on man

y'all you got it y'all okay it's not

your gun all right yeah we we know we

don't even pull it off welding yeah no

it sounds contrived you gotta at least

memorize the publishers

great

you need to come to Joe for some fashion

tips you know I'm saying because he

looked crazy I don't like but that's not

who I am I don't like that that's not

misrepresenting myself but I just don't

like all of that

because nobody there was no Paparazzi or

excess media at the Pacers locker room

when that red dot was on I'm like that's

a story that you created how do you guys

feel it should have went well you could

it could have been more believable do

you feel it should have been uncanded

like just him expressing himself no

media control oh then they said eight

game suspension six of those have

already been served time service baby

NBA suspension I like Tom surf you go

sit up in the little counseling session

for a week and come home and change man

nobody

get your ass get your black ass back on

that field him and and Dylan Brooks is

I'm telling you the basketball version

of uh Melky Cabrero Melky Cabrera and

Robinson canoe Yankees outfit oh y'all

back there having fun huh

you see what Memphis just did they

changed they um Road game rules like now

after the game soon as the game is over

they need to go to the next they don't

stay overnight now we're not gonna be

staying here I'll save it

it says that the organization

acknowledges that there's a problem with

our very young team and we lack

discipline that's true we're not

disciplined enough to stay in the same

city overnight

you're from Sumter South Carolina my

family if me and you were 22 years old

with 200 Michaels

we wouldn't talk

we

wouldn't talk

crazy out of the park like Ken Griffey

look the internet being the internet

they wouldn't filed John Moran's

Instagram from 10 years ago oh my God

it

it's a theme cutest little guy he's

always been trying to look like that

like it's funny like like a yeah yeah

like as a little kid he's his captions

yo I'm a drug money I could buy you what

you want like 12 my [ __ ]

what are you doing it's the household

man what are you doing no it's musicians

programming

that's really what it is

you know yes you got another caption

that uh was a Trinidad James Record at

the time when it was big like that's

what he was doing yeah that's exactly

what it is kids want to be that okay

absolutely that's the damn [ __ ] this

world is going cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs it

really is it really is it is

I know it's bad because now I sit home

on my bed with my phone in my hand

scrolling saying to myself

somebody's about to give me something

somebody about to give me something am I

about to do something so stupid oh like

if they do in a couple more Scrolls yeah

I'm gonna get some magic in this phone

and sure enough

every single time it never fails uh what

else is going on

well Sierra is making a lot of waves

right now with the naked dress have you

guys seen it yes yes have you guys seen

it yes okay so

um the she's clapping back at the haters

who um pun intended

who have selected she calls it selective

outrage

um that's a good that's a new buzzer

that's the new that's that that's the

new buzzword term yeah exactly

um and there's the criticism is

basically that she was naked on the red

carpet at the Vanity Fair

um after party yeah after party for the

awards but a lot of people are missing

the fact that it was a theme there was a

theme like that barely there yeah barely

there and a lot of other people showed

up in extraordinarily revealing dresses

but she seems to be getting a lot of the

Heat and a lot of people are saying oh

she's a wife and a mother she shouldn't

be dressed like this etc etc meanwhile

her husband was standing right next to

her loving every minute of it kind of

matching her outfit like her gloves were

like valve Black Velvet his jacket was

Black Velvet

it keeps coming up

y'all hear that out there Broncos County

let's ride I thought it was I thought it

was interesting

um that she was receiving so much

criticism and I just wondered like how

how would you guys feel well ish I kind

of I hear that you have a problem with

your girl wears like tight so I might

have to exclude you from this

conversations Joe would you be okay with

your girl yes I figured that answer

would be from you do you think that a

woman her sheep should be policed like

this like do you think that the dress

was tasteful

time out I'm not gonna let you do that

what

I noted this is young man and this is

your guy like one of your favorite

Potters here but the compelling content

is asking ish what he thinks about this

dress and would he let his girl wear the

dress we don't need to get that don't

try to bail him out Edge I hear that so

I might leave you out no we won't

specifically we're going to zoom in

and ask the important question which is

Ish can she wear that dress can your

girl wear that dress

out with you

you're out with her no

okay no no oh and he's speaking to the

microphone

yeah no no no okay he said no four times

count four why I'll say ten more need be

oh don't you believe in him after

discussion um

that's why I don't think it's really

appropriate for my wife to be out naked

under a real sheer

um

what's that [ __ ] called fabric fishnet

esque dress like even if that's the

theme of the party you could do you

could find some other [ __ ] be creative

she's not his preference guys what are

you talking about yeah you letting your

wife do that yeah he's asking me I love

to do that yeah I picked it out and

she's with me no no no not that one

of the pictures yeah it worked yeah the

[ __ ] you with me too yeah got you yeah

yeah I'm cool myself I don't know

but if she wanted to wear there you

wouldn't stand for out next to her

because you can't you can't well

there's two different questions I'm

asking a different question I'm not

asking that question no more um and for

my girl wanted to wear that that's the

conversation

we have some grown-up dialogue

's sitting here but I appreciate it

it's Friday

um

if if

it's a conversation if I want to go

outside and wear a tight gray sweatpants

every day and this is the analogy that I

give it's not every day by the way my

girl feels a difference about that my

girl would have something to say about

me wearing that one day if I wanted to

go outside with a speedo on put your

normal my girl feels a certain way about

that I have to respect with my girl's

opinion is and what my girl stance is on

that matter can I ask you a question

sure if if it was an event and it was

the theme is gray and you said yo she's

going with you and you said yo I want to

put these great sweats on to go to this

she would say no she would say no yes oh

yeah okay okay wait now and I would

respect that if I wanted to walk outside

with a gray tight speedo on my my man

out

and my girl would feel some sort of way

and I would respect her decision

my new question for you which is my old

question that you didn't answer at all

I said

okay well if she wore the dress you

wouldn't stand next to her proudly at

the party and you all right I get

opportunity to dance because they

started with the conversation and that's

why he started throwing up the we got

him sign because

what conversation she put it on she's

left with this she know how you feel

about it now I'm wearing this to the

party I'm asking would you be next to

her proudly that wouldn't take place

[Laughter]

it wouldn't take place so it's not a

hypothetical where you're trying to set

me up and line me up it wouldn't take

place the same way if my girl told me I

don't feel comfortable with you wearing

that I wouldn't wear it I think it's

that that's communication in a grown a

grown person relationship if my girl

don't feel comfortable with me wearing

something I don't wear it let me ask you

if I don't feel comfortable with my girl

wearing something she's not gonna wear

it it's an understanding is that

borderline is that for the borderline of

insecurities no it doesn't not to me

because what's the reason of not you

know not allowing her to wear it

everybody's moral compass is different

everybody's um level of what they deem

appropriate is different and I mean no I

do agree if your girl wanted to walk

outside your wife that you are married

to today with half of her cheeks out

like some of the young girls do do you

find that appropriate no because that

means you're insecure if she wanted to

there's nothing I can do about it we're

not talking about walking outside like

in Queens

there's no difference

let me ask you all the questions y'all

go to the beach with your wife what what

can she wear I don't go to the beach

with my wife I do and my girl wears

bathing suits at the beach she does one

piece yeah one piece the

because it's appropriate for the for

where you are it's Beach attire okay so

Sierra was on a red carpet

um where the theme was in line with what

she wore that's appropriate for that

that's appropriate for that so if you

were invited to the same party same

theme and your girl wanted really that's

a really good point yeah

um ah I I think the uh the intent may be

different but that's a really good point

and I just think I think the intent may

be different ladies and gentlemen

we got him

[Laughter]

a misogynistic thing right if any [ __ ]

in here wanted to walk outside you've

told me that your girl is semi-jealous

your girl is in my jealous I don't

really know your girl to that being that

I extend your girl's a little liberal

but if any of y'all wanted to walk

outside with your dick out your girl

gonna have a problem okay the prosthetic

though hold on

hey what my girl said about the gray

sweatshirt right now she also said but

you can wear it with me

my girl got a whole side of the closet

that she don't even acknowledge unless

I'm there yeah like my girl got some

[ __ ] that's only going to be worn out

why though where does that come from

though I'm confused why though is it is

it an insecurity thing on behalf of him

what he said is it an insecurity thing

are you women insecure why does it

matter what you wear and why is it why

do I have to there you go why do I have

to be there to why do you have to be

there for me to wear it because there's

bad creeps out there I mean my wife's so

that means my wife has some [ __ ] that's

a little bit more revealing she's like

I'm not gonna wear this because I don't

want to go out and have mad [ __ ]

creepos on me but if you're there then

you're gonna hold it down logical yeah

yeah why would your girl feel a certain

way about wearing you wearing certain

[ __ ] unless you're in her presence

I don't know that's what she said

she's like yo you can wear that [ __ ] if

I'm there all right cool because that

there's a communication got you that we

speak about that's it indeed

is it a conversation that comes up with

you and your mate like you just said

that you're yes just to get back to you

it's misogynistic because you keep

saying it would never happen it wouldn't

that's why it's misogynistic it's not

because I let off with and I knew you

was again trying to paint the picture uh

Picasso I let off with if my girl which

has expressed to me that she don't like

me wearing certain [ __ ] outside and if

my girl states that she don't like that

I don't do it you said that I said that

from go you don't have nothing to do it

does question and he can't hear that so

I'm just getting off of it you said it

that's right I said that that's great

that you respect her that way that's

awesome and I'm acknowledging that in

your example you just said if my girl

asked me to take some [ __ ] off I'm

taking her off I'm not wearing it that's

awesome I'm saying

she put it on that little rule y'all

have today is out the window I want to

go to the Vanity Fair party wearing this

and I'm wearing this whether you are

next to me or not

you it's misogynistic because you can't

even imagine it to be a reality it's not

myself that's realistic that is a

hypothetical

like that yes you brush your house up

the way you want to dress it up you want

your couch in the corner I want my couch

in the middle fam like I said if that's

a conversation my my relationship is ran

on communication and effective

communication so my girl is going to

respect me enough to say I know already

based on our history that you might

think this is risque is this okay and I

would do the same thing that's not

misogyny is it misogyny when women do it

and your example is bad cause [ __ ] you

are a straight man you're not walking

out and [ __ ] with your chest and ass out

and dick out and legs out because you

keep talking about if my girl tells me

not to wear this Polo

you got a lot of Hoodie

I don't know what he keeps talking about

I said if I want to walk outside with

tight gray sweatpants [ __ ] that's not

gay [ __ ] do you have another example

besides the grace I wanted to use that

one I know but are there more

I wanted to use that one so there are no

more dogs

what he does in his household that's his

house but you're calling the massage and

he said no I'm calling out the bad

example women have 19 trillion articles

of clothing that this conversation would

come up about men do not I'm pointing

that out okay in our broadcast okay it's

not about the the number of clothes that

you have it's about the mental thing of

where we've align that in our

communication it don't matter if you got

one outfit or 50 outfits the sentiment

is the same if my girl finds something

that I'm doing that she don't like it

don't even got to be with dressing it

could be with anything in the world and

if I know she don't like it I try not to

do it I agree with that that's a [ __ ]

real relationship my [ __ ] I'm not gonna

say yo you can't stop me from wearing

this so I'ma wear it anyway

that's disregarding my girl's feelings

if I had a problem with something my

wife would take into consideration the

next time yeah just to avoid the problem

or to open that form of communication

it's not misogynistic my [ __ ] yeah it's

real grown relationships my wife was

outside in the road picking up

stuff off the floor then tell me the

grown way that your wife will

communicate to you that I'm wearing this

no matter what because there's a grown

way to communicate that well I think

what he's saying

no no no I think what he's saying I can

answer him I don't need him I don't

think that that's grown communication

yeah that's right I don't think that's a

communication that should be effective

in a relationship for you to dismiss

whatever the [ __ ] my feelings are and

whatever I'm saying and go do it anyway

that's that's that causes an argument

but he's wrong because

in his brain he keep doing it every time

I twist it he keeps changing it in his

brain she's dismissing him no I'm

talking about the wife that acknowledges

how you feel has received you heard you

and is still doing this that is not

dismissive that's shaking that is not

dismissive that is that is not all right

now I'm looking at it

[ __ ] up he's wrong no I don't know this

[ __ ] is a thousand percent wrong if

your girl tell you I want you to [ __ ] no

[ __ ] and you say yo I'ma go [ __ ] them

anyway you're just missing how your girl

feels that's true

answer that big guy I'm looking up words

I'm looking up words

oh Sierra you got this pod lit on fire

girl no no you got it wrong

indicating dismissal or rejection having

the purpose or effect of dismissing as

from one's presence or from

consideration that's one two indicating

lack of Interest or at probation

scornful disdainful so let's go with one

you have to stand on this that's not

dismissive I took everything you said

into account I didn't ignore you I

didn't disregard you I didn't do none of

that you disregard though I didn't just

the second you took everything in and

said I'm doing it anyway that's the

disregard exactly and you open it that's

what the disregard is I disagree with

that because you say I'm doing it

whether you like it or not that's the

disregard so even if I say I don't like

it you still doing it you're

disregarding the fact what comes out of

that though hold on I disagree with that

but I'm not going to call a therapist

right now so we can unpack but what

comes out what comes out of that though

what comes out so as a man he's supposed

to say oh I respect it I respect you

want to do doesn't that come doesn't the

argument come after that

no no

I think that is where communication

comes in and I think that's poor

communication okay that's why I said how

do you express that hey honey I

understand that's how you feel I love

you but I'm gonna wear this

now how do we communicate from there you

have the problem with my choice my

decision even though I heard you and I

react to your thinking differently than

you think I should okay

what happens next I don't know so the

man has to what just say okay you can do

what you want to do I'm called an

arbitrator because that's what happens

if it's not an argument it's gonna do

what you want to do and then like what

happens let me tell you what happens

next what happens next and the question

that Joe ducked is so yo when your girl

tells you I don't really feel

comfortable with you [ __ ] other

[ __ ] and you can say oh I heard you

but I still gonna do it again

create a steep slope of where the

communication and choices in your

relationship start to get taken for

granted so you we can agree on a dress

but what happens when I want to go on a

date or what happens when I want to go

do this or what happens when I want to